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Question for women regarding implants.?

My gf is very slim. Not skinny but slim. She works out and is in pretty good shape. In her opinion she believes that she was "shorted" on top. I admit that her size is a 34A (and that's on a good day). But I pretty much figured that out before we started dating (clothes only hide so much) and it never bothered me.

I've always told her (and meant it) that she's fine as she is and I think she's very sexy just the way God made her. But I know it bothers her and she has talked many times about breast enhancements. I also know there is always a risk with surgery.

I need the opinion of the ladies. Do I encourage her to seek out breast augmentation options, or do I try to discourage her, or do I continue to let her know that she's just as beautiful and sexy as she is right now?

When you respond, IF you don't mind, plz let me know if UR "small" or large and if U had enhancements. (I'll know where you're coming from.)

Many thx from a guy who thinks his GF is already a perfect 10!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    YOU ARE SO GREAT!! oh my god i so love yoy !! you should tell her not to do the breastimplants becaouse she is perfect as you say! so it shouldnt bother her my ex BF was pushing me to do breastimplants and i think he is a total *** I am 34a and you know what i havent dne any imlants and never will !! And if you girlfriend loves you so much she will listnen!! And tell her she should love her self MORE!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well to begin I should tell you that I am small about the same size as your girlfriend and I totally understand the way your girlfriend feels because I feel the same way a lot of the time. I also have an amazing boyfriend who tells me the things you tell your lady. But I still don't feel "right." I mean I love the fact that he loves me for me but also I don't feel like I can really love myself and the way I look. I keeep going back and forth on the matter and lately I realize that I am fine the way I am. I think it's best that you continue telling her that's she perfect and support her in whatever her decision ends up being.

  • Terri
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    IF she does get an enlargement do NOT pay for it! Since you are not for her getting implants it would be on her for financing them.

    Let her know that you love her breast size no matter how small she thinks they are. BUT if she wants to get implants support her no matter what.

    FYI, I was a 38J and had a reduction to a 38C so I will tell you that big breasts aren't all that.

    Also if she does get the surgery, don't go any bigger than a full C or she will be encouraging back/neck and shoulder pain.

  • 1 decade ago

    One of my girlfriends got implants last year. She turned from A to C. She's happy with herself but I personally think her breasts are too hard. The feeling and the look are just not right. In my opinion, the worst cosmetic thing a woman can do to herself is to get implants. On slim women it looks even worse.

    Your girlfriend should know that she has a wonderful boyfriend who loves her for who she is and not for how big she is. It is proven that sexual attractiveness does not come from the size of the sexual organs. Instead it is very much brain and heart related.

    I hope you can convince her into not getting those artificial rubber balls in her beautiful body! I wish both of you a healthy&happy life.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I too think that women are more bothered by the size of their breasts than men. I breastfed my two boys and afterwards my breasts were even smaller than before and very uneven. I hated them. My husband didn't care. I had mine done and I just love them. They look and feel very natural, I'm glad they don't have that fake look. I too work out and think I have a hot bod otherwise, but the boob thing really bothered me. Not what others thought, but seeing my nice body naked in the mirror and seeing those lopsided boobs. I'm glad I got it done. I feel alot better about myself physically, for me.

    I think there are always possibilities of complications with any surgery and if she's willing to take that risk, I say more power to her. As long as she's healthy and a non-smoker, I'm sure she'd be fine. Just make sure she's doing it for herself and nobody else. I say let her do what she feels is good for herself and just provide positive support to whatever her decision is.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I prefer a woman to have REAL breasts, no matter the size. While I do enjoy a good set of breasts, they're not what I fall in love with.

    I think women care more about breast implants than men do. The only explanation I can come up with for this, is that they like to play with them when we men aren't around...

  • 1 decade ago

    my breasts arent big but they are not entirely small either. I want to get mine enlarged, i think by doing so it would give me a little more confidence.

    I think that you should continue with saying how perfect she is and that you are happy with her size and everything, but if she still wants to do it, let her. If it will will make her happy in doing so be there for her, but still make a rather large point that you liked the way she was in the begiinning and you like her no matter what decision she makes.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't encourage her. Yeah, she might still do it or she might learn to accept her body in time. Or she may never.There's always going to be something even if she does do it. Thighs, butt, weight, etc. It's more her mindset than how she look physially. I'd reassure her. And if she does, she might find out she doesn't want to be with a guy who encouraged her, esp if it gets botched. She'll leave u and see what's out there. YOu hear that all the time. They're suddenly a whole new person...

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should continue to tell her she's fine as she is, but tell her you'll support her no matter what she decides. I've known a few girls who have gotten breast implants, and for the most part, it's given a boost to their confidence.

    Oh...and I'm small. 34B.

  • 1 decade ago

    dude,

    i think that your girl friend should never wANT TO CHANGE THE WAY SHE IS.dont let her get immplants that could hurt her in many ways.so just keep telling her she bea u tiful and me and my friend ashley know how it is to be big, guys star at us alot and its creepy some times there good but other times there bad

    by3

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