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Cyber Sex: is it the norm? Been happily married for 14yrs, with obvious normal ups and downs!?

Then discover husband having explicit cyber sex, obviously relating to intimate meetings with said female. I printed out conversations and they hurt to the core - fantasies he never shared with me. I showed him print out and he pleads innosence. Told him to cut all ties. Which he did via "speaker phone" so I could hear.He's now bought me own lap top so I have no access to his comp ever. I still have problems with the trust issue. We have a very good sex life, so why the need for the cyber, or is this the norm and harmless and innocent as he so claims. Still hurts like f^<k :-(

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  • 1 decade ago
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    its still cheating and it is not normal

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    MMMM, I am suspicious if he bought you your own lap top and you don't have access to his. He is probably still at it. It's perverted if you and him are married to each other.

    Sounds like your husband has a serious problem with addiction to porn. He may need professional help....

  • 1 decade ago

    Its pretty normal. Many people partake in it, and as long as hes not cheating in real life, theses fantasies should be alright. U may want to join in tho...

  • 1 decade ago

    I have cyber sex sometimes but I'm single. Why should I have cyber sex if I have a partner. But now that you have a laptop you can have cybersex with himmmmm!!!!!! LOL

    but don't tell him!!!! and share your wildest phantasies :))))

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