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Why do I still love him?

This guy I am friends with moved away a few weeks ago. I had liked him all of last year, but not this year. I write him letters, but I am still in love with him. I don't know if I should break up with my bf and take a chance with him, or just stick with my man and try to find out if he still likes me a little bit, because he liked me last year too, but I didn't know it, so we never hooked up. What should I do? I like my boyfriend, but it is impossible for me to stop liking this other guy! to quote Taylor Swift's new song, Teardrops on my Guitar,

"Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see

That I want and I'm needing everything that we should be

I'll bet she's beautiful, that girl he talks about

And she's got everything that I have to live without

Drew talks to me, I laugh cause it's just so funny

That I can't even see anyone when he's with me

He says he's so in love, he's finally got it right,

I wonder if he knows he's all I think about at night

[Chorus:]

Update:

He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar

The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star

He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do

Drew walks by me, can he tell that I can't breathe?

And there he goes, so perfectly,

The kind of flawless I wish I could be

She'd better hold him tight, give him all her love

Look in those beautiful eyes and know she's lucky cause

[Repeat Chorus]

So I drive home alone, as I turn out the light

I'll put his picture down and maybe

Get some sleep tonight

He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar

The only one who's got enough of me to break my heart

He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do

He's the time taken up, but there's never enough

And he's all that I need to fall into..

Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see."

that is exactly how I feel about him! everything wouldn't fit on the question, so here you go.

Update 2:

fyi, Drew is not ny bf or the other guy's name.

Update 3:

I am afraid to break up with my boyfriend! I think I'm just gonna ask if he still hs feelings for me, and go from there.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I believe you should go for the guy that truly makes you happy. The one you really and deeply care about without a doubt. That you can't see yourself without and live without. Which seems to me is the guy that moved away. Good luck and best wishes!

  • Anita
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You are in love with the other guy. your boyfriend is just as a security measure for you not to be alone. But believe me you better be alone or with the other guy. You are harming yourself. Does the other man live far away? If yes, long distance relationships hurt and if you're fantasizing on another man than your boyfriend, he might not be enough for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Break Up with your current boyfriend.

    You don't love him, and if you don't leave him , he would never know what being truly loved means.

    If you leave him and go to your true love, not only you and your love will be happy - your current boyfriend will get a chance to be loved by someone (just like you love this guy)

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should get together with that other guy. Because you'll regret it for the rest of your life and you really seem to like the other guy.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask your boyfriend if he is willing to share you with this other guy, then you guys can have a threesome for the win! ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    you know what to do the answer is with in you (most of the time lol) stick with the man you got now thats what i say!!

  • 1 decade ago

    looks like your way into that other guy...so u should take a chance on him

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