what will you do if you love someone who already get married and 15 years older than you ?!?

Marry the old fart, he'll need a nurse maid in a few more years, because he's almost out of commission and ready to lose his mojo.

But you'll be his trophy wife, so I guess in other words, he flew the coop for the hen house, your the hen, the ex is a freebird, and the kids will have left the nest.

Seriously, though listen to your mother, she has more sense than your making right now.

some things just aren't meant to be. he will eventually cheat on you for someone younger as you get older, and by then you will have a couple more of his kids, then you really will feel like crap. love isn't the only thing to a relationship, you only love him alot, because you know he is forbidden fruit because he is with another, how do you like screwing a man that goes home to his wife and screws her too.

if he's doing it to her... he'll prolly do that to you too... but then again who knows... if i was u, i'd drop the case wouldn't even think about marrying him - and that's just me again! And OF COURSE you can find someone better... i wouldn't trust him wanting to marry you now and wanting to divorce his wife. If he really wanted it to be this way he would've divorced her a long LONG time ago REGARDLESS!

Of course you should marry him! How else is Karma going to even the score and make sure that a couple of years and a couple of kids down the road, you'll find yourself being dumped for his next skank!