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metimoteo asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

To what degree do you believe your given name has influenced who you are?

Do you believe people would treat you differently if your name were Jack as opposed to Ted, for example, or Sarah as compared with Mary? How much does a name define who we are? I think it's safe to say that some names (e.g. Adolph, Osama) are so infamous that they stereotype everyone else who bears that name.

People whom I've met briefly and then not seen again for days or weeks have mistakenly called me Michael, but I have two cousins named Michael and they look nothing alike nor anything like me. My name is T------. Also, while I have a Spanish surname, it's NOT Martinez, yet I've been called "Mr. Martinez" more than I can remember. For the record, my last name begins with an "H" and ends with a "z." I cannot explain this occurrence, but it's happened so often that I've come to expect it when meeting people.

Do you like your name? Have you ever wanted to change it? If you could choose a new name, what would you call yourself? Do you think people would treat you differently?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    There appears to be something about people's expectations and what someone will look like with a certain name, I fully agree. My name has projected a far sharper image of me all my life than I could have achieved anonymously, I feel. And this has led to disappointments about me, I am certain.

    I have always felt that "Percival" would have been a far more appropriate name for me.

    I am a dreamy, arty kind of guy, and my actual name does not reflect that.

    As a consequence, I have had to develop that side of myself, and I feel it has made me a somewhat two-faced person, which is plainly visible when looking at a photograph of me (two very different sides of my face are clearly distinguishable).

  • chieko
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    1 decade ago

    well, when i consider names that i could have had -

    louise (dad's side)

    setsuko (mom's side)

    jennifer (mom liked jennifer leigh)

    hazel (dad has no taste...)

    Source(s): nah...i'm cool wit what i got...
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