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Are there any good guys out there..? It seems the past 2 guys I dated they turn out to be liars and complete assholes!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Sure there are good guys out there. But you have to ask yourself, are you looking for the good guys, or are you just pining for one?

    This question drives me nuts, because frequently, my female friends will cry about how their bf's have been pricks, and how they just want a good guy... but then go back to picking those men that embody the very things they hate.

    Many women say they want a good guy, but really, they want a bad boy that will treat them well. This seldom is the outcome.

    Allow me to suggest that you consider where you are meeting your men? Are you meeting them at bars, clubs, or other notorious 'pickup' sites? Or are you getting them from school, church, volunteer activites, etc? You will draw different fish from different lakes. Keep in mind, when a man picks up a girl at the bar, he really is only interested in sex. not many long term relationships are started in a club.

    To allow yourself to have a better chance at finding a good man, spend some more time on yourself. Do things that YOU like to do, in the locations that you like to do them. You will meet men with more in common with you if they are doing the same things you like to do.

    my last tip... stolen from columnist Dave Berry,

    A person who is not nice to a waitress (Server), is not a nice person.

    -this means, the quickest way to determine if someone is a nice person, is to see how they treat people that they may deem as lower in status then themselves.

    Good luck, Beautiful!

  • 1 decade ago

    Are you looking for a good guy but just attracted to bad boys. There are good guys out there but we are scarce now. You use to be able to meet them at church but players and thugs caught on to this so......wish I could help ya all i can say is keep looking and I hope you find him

  • 1 decade ago

    ofcourse, I am great... and modest too ;-)

    haha, yeah there are in all seriousness just keep the faith sister, there are more assholes then nice ones out there.

  • 1 decade ago

    You picked 'em honey. There more guy's like me around. Lot's depends on where you're meeting them, and how you present yourself.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Im a good guy, the 5 ex's i have, have nothing bad to say about me....but your probably no where near where i'm at....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, there are "good guys" out there, but it is YOUR responsibility to be discriminating.

  • 1 decade ago

    I use to ask my self the same question. Just don't look it will come. Before u date them ask them for there RESUME. LOL

  • 1 decade ago

    yes there are good guys left, are there any good girls? statistics show that girls cheat more than guys do and then lie about it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sure there are,you just have to look in better places-not bars.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i don't think there are but hey i'm in GA, not everywhere else. :) good luck and when you find one, send his brother my way k!

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