Please teach me, ladies! How can I trust guys again?

Trusting always takes time. And when your trust was violated it takes even more time to get you back to that place where you once felt safe. All you can do is take it slow. When it comes to guys just be cautious. Get a fell for the person,who they are,what their personality is like. Get to know that person as well as you can and then decide if they are worth trusting. Remember not all guys are the same. That saying about all men being alike that is a false statement. You will find the right one for you one day. You just need to keep the faith that your true love is out there. All you have to do is keep your heart open and your mind grounded. If you get me by saying that. Follow your heart. One day you will get what you seek. Trust me. Good luck to you!

Hey Chickie.... All i can say is that you need to give yourself some time to heal. Take time to relax in the mind body and spirit. Go for a holiday somewhere you've never been be for and on your own. Or even just spending more time with your family and close friends will help. We tend to distance ourselves from the people we care about where fixed in a relationship. So get on the phone makes some calls and go have some fun OK. You ll feel a million times better, be surrounded by the ones who luv you and have the support you need...!!!

You have to open your heart up again, and let trust and love back in. It will be hard but you can't let a good man slip away because of what the guys before him did. I myself just found this out. I had a daughter at 16 by this loser. and i thought he was going to be this great fatherbutall he kept doing was going back anf forth to jail. if you add all the time together he probably seen my now 5 1/2 year old daughter a good 15 times isn't that said. And than i met my second daughter's father and i was afraid to love him because i thought he was going to hurt me but i did. I 'm glad i did because we've been together for 4 years now and now we are gettingmarried. I love him so much he does everything right. i mean everybody has their flaws but as far as taking care of his family goes we don't want for nothing. And he adopted my oldest daughter. God is going to put love back in your life you just have to open up your heart as i did mine. good luck

if he replaced into fairly sorry, he might supply up the habit. some everybody is persistent emotional voids. they elect interest from the different intercourse continuously to experience good approximately themselves. umless he realizes that there are effects to his habit - accepts that that's faulty - and with out severe counselling, your husband shouldn't exchange. i word which you have a baby with maximum cancers and you're handling all of that rigidity. and the place are this guy's priorities? lining up different women persons to get interest from - no longer helping his baby and his spouse emotionally. you have needs too at this difficult time the place you're able to desire to be dealing with the lack of ability of a youngster. apparently, you're basically no longer significant sufficient for him to decelerate on the cheating - he has no comprehend for you in any respect. i'm surprised that some human beings at right here think of you ought to decrease him some slack, while he has shown himself so unworthy as a husband and father.

hmm.. i mean go on a date and see how well it works but, u have to take chances just do it if don't trust boys how are u suppose to get married or do anything well u have to go to a gudies concil

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. It's all about giving. To have a friend you have to be a friend.

By not saying "everyone" All guys are differant in most ways,not "All" guys are jerks. It's a person to person situation.

Just trust them

Learn yourself

Keep trusting.