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Wicked Ways fo love...?

Sometimes you need to think long and hard before you give your ex another try.. because I did and 3 days later I found out things that make me furious.

Well, I would like to say thank you to the maker of that great website (myspace) because I found out that my ex cheated on my most of the time we dated. Then I find out that he started dating her a few days after we broke up and then he asked me to get back with him... so he was dating the both of us at once. So, then I think how much more can this guy hurt me... well then I find out that this trip that he said was a "Work Trip" he planned it with the woman he was cheating on me with.

Then he tells me how much she is not his type, how she doesn't like anything he likes, she makes him spend all his money on her... blah blah blah...

Has the nerve to ask me to still be friends with him. So, ladies when you feel your man is cheating don't over look it...

Update:

Um how would that be my fault. If you love someone and you you didn't know that they cheated on you and you broke up for a stupid reason and then got back together to find out all of the lies that he told me 3 days later. That isn't my fault... that is what happens to girls that open there hurts to men that just like to be players.

My thing was merely a warning to other women who think there man is cheating. You best look into it when you have that thought because I bet 70% of the time it's true.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I don't have a whole lot of sympathy for young women and men that shouldn't be considering long term relationships anyway .... your at the age where you should be dating different people, and not tie yourself down to one person ... now, lying and cheating isnt the way to go ... but perhaps he was afraid to be honest with you

  • i didnt found out right away but stupidly gave him another chance 6 monthes after telling me everything he forgot to mention a sex act she did in him, im so hurt, sad, lonley and feel very unloved I so tried to make a go and although we are still together in a loose sence of the word I will be dumping him this weekend, i have had enough

  • 1 decade ago

    It's your own fault, sweetie!!!!! Hope you woke up after that one..........

    :o)

  • 1 decade ago

    And the question is...?

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  • 1 decade ago

    AMEN

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