why is life this way?

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Attitude can not be it. I think luck is it. I have similiar problem with girls. They just try to get me to say something sexual to them so they can make fun of me. Like today....

I am not sure what to say. All I can say is that this world has a messed up system that is controlled by the elite and all the money goes to them.

I don't know.

Also dude, girls have very high expectations. Way too high., Ridiculously high. In fact they are so high that they are the ones that always have to go out with older men. Men don't do that do they? See waaaaaay to high expectations if u can;t go out with someone ur own age. Sorry girls, but it is most definetely true.

we get that all the time

believe it or not, everyone feels like that from time to time

I think you're just going through a ruff time

has it always been like this for you? ask yourself that...I'm sure it hasn't

and it won't be

things will get better I guarantee u that

and as you go in through life, youll se ppl you once thought they had it all go down and crash and you'll be standing and marching on

I see life as a continuous battle

it never ends

and there's also that plesure-pain principle

like when you're in a lot of pain and trouble, the sun will come out, and when you're having great fun you know the downside is coming...

and there is an equilibrium in the universe that doesn't let things float around in chaos

it's all balanced so nothing stays unpunished or unrewarded

and las but not least look around and maybe you'll se ppl adimiring you and thinking the grass on YOUR side is greener ;)

Sorry you are having a ruff time right now. You first have to have a positive outlook on things. There are children who are dieing right now because they can't get enough food to eat. If you live in America and you are poor, you still have it better then 99% of the rest of the world, so thank god for that. I myself started on the bottom of the world, i worked for 7-11, then a motel for a couple of years and i found myself only making enough to pay the rent. My girlfriend and i were very much strapped for cash, my kids were suffering everyday. I then one day just made up my mind to better myself through school, but i found out i didn't like going to school for 4 years, so i payed 900.00 dollars and went to dealer school for poker, and my girlfriend went to nursing school. Now after 5 years we are now going very well and we want after nothing, i make very good money now as well as my girlfriend. So pick a goal and go for it. Jus set goals for yourself each day, it isen't going to change overnight, it is going to take time and hard work so quit feeling sorry for yourself and get to it.

If we all knew the answer to that question, we'd be God. People don't have everything handed to them. They work hard for it, and it's a reward of their success.

However, there are people who are more prone to bad luck. Whatever it is--fate or anything--it doesn't matter in the end. You know that even though you are asking this question, you're still believing somewhere deep inside. You're fighting this question, yet you're still hoping. Why else are you so desperately searching for an answer?

You already have the answer. Bring that hope in you forward.

Playa, it seems to me that you truly believe your life sucks, and if you go into details, I mist agree. BUT, you should never envy another persons fortunes and compare them to your own... because you will never be happy. My life sucks compared to Bill Gates or Micheal Jordan, but you gotta think about you, and only focus on you. If you want a change, then you got to puch for one, and one day you will get it, its true that you never gett anywhere moping... good luck man, and I know your gonna get it, because your smart enough to have realized the way life works.

i know how you feel man. but you cant just sit around and mope about how crappy your life is. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! you want girls on your lap then get more confidence and go out more. my prediction is that your life isnt so well because your state of mind isnt so well. Mind over matter. Think positively and good things are bound to happen to you. If you want something you cant just sit around until it falls on your lap you have to go and grab it

for example, I have people at my job who are always worried about what the other people are doing. so, they end up missing out on the good assigments and don't accomplish as much as the rest of us. So, maybe focusing on what you want will help at least get you in the right direction.

You missed 2: life, AND WHY? God made you because of the fact He loves you. you have this way of difficulty referred to as 'purpose', it is the reason you're unique, one-of-a-form. That makes you 'particular', particular to not me, who cares approximately me, yet particular to the only that created you--God. So, having coming to this end it would do you many stable, to seek His will to your life, and stay it to the proper of your ability. stable success.

dear friend we all have that moments in our life,but u must be stronger than and get up u.life isnt always nice and sure isnt what we meean.Its an adventure and whan u are fell like :( u must look like :) come on u cane be smart,interesant,real guy just u must belive in urself and do that what u tkink... be jurk sometimes,take what u can isnt interesant to be good and poor... no one likes that persons....

you have almost answered your own question, part of it is the way you act, and sometimes its just sh!ty luck. you just have to keep plugging along and ya it sometimes has to get worse before it gets better, just take the good with the bad and enjoy the good times when you do have it and you will never know.