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My friend says I'm hanging out with another girl and neglecting her? I know it's kinda long but plz read!

How could she say that? She said that I'm neglecting her which I AM NOT! She says I've been hanging out with another girl and NEGLECTING HER!!! To tell the truth, she's just jealous of that girl and says that I'm being tricked by that 'selfish, stupid and annoying girl'. How could she say that? I need some advice cos she is now kinda neglecting ME! She wants me to stop neglecting her and neglect the girl! I can't do that. HELP!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    she is obviously insecure. try to make plans with both of them together. if they do not get along with eachother, you will have to choose whether to try to be friends with both or to pick one or the other. this is really your friends problem, not yours.

  • 1 decade ago

    that happened to me too.. what you can do is that make your other friend feel that you are not neglecting her..it doesn't mean that you are w/ someone you would already forget another person.. maybe you swap the situation..tell her that when she is with another person you don't quarrel tell her 'you are neglecting me" you give other the chance to be w/ somebody and learn more about other people.. tell her that if she's a real friend she would understand you and try to compromise..

  • 1 decade ago

    as girls we're very protective of our close friends. before you get mad at her, consider why she's acting this way. maybe she's afraid that this new girl will take her place. maybe there's something in her life that is forcing her to reach out, and she feels like you're not there for her. or maybe, you're spending more time with this new girl than you realize? explain to her that nothing's changed between the two of you, and prove it by offering to do something she loves this week, just the two of you. always make time for both of them, but don't let her make you feel bad for having other friends.

  • 1 decade ago

    i went thru the same thing except i was in your friend's place. i accused my freind dat she was neglecting me and it felt so horrible and because of dat i lost her. so dis is wat u do, tell her straight up dat you were never neglecting her and apologised to her and say dat you're sorry for making her feel dat way.do this b4 it gets too late. i really wish you would patch up wif your friend. best of luck;>

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