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My girlfriend complains that my penis is too big and hurts her.?

I'm only 8 inches long, but it's very thick and I can't even get a condom on. She loves to give me oral, but cries when we have sex because she says it's tearing her. I have only been with three other girls and my ex complained a lot but never cried. The other two girls were one night stands and they seemed happy. Help!

Update:

I've tried using lubricants but nothing seems to help. She cries because it hurts her and she told her mom that I'm too big and now her mom is trying to get me to sleep with her because she's going through a divorce. Help!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Use lots of lube and see if it helps some. Start very slow also.

  • Nels N
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Men obviously come in a wide variety of sizes. Women do too, but it can't be seen. The other women you've been with were big enough to accomodate you, but your girlfriend is having problems. If you allow her to be on top, she may be able to relax and go slow enough to adjust to your size. If she can't adjust, you should probably stay away from straight intercourse.

    Another problem you may run into is hitting her cervix in such a way that it is uncomfortable/painful. This can be remedied by changing to positions in which it is hard to go too deep. An example is a missonary variation with her legs on the inside of yours. (It's awkward to get into, but gives a lot of clitoral stimulation, which is very good.)

    From experience i know that large size is a mixed blessing. Most women are VERY appreciative of size. By the way, Magnum condoms will fit over EVERY man, even if they are uncomfrotably tight. They're a little larger than the standard condoms.

  • 1 decade ago

    Use lube, perhaps she's dry... Try more foreplay to get her engine oiled and perhaps those 2 one night stands were well... whores therefore you could've had a 12 inch cock & they wouldn't have complained because they were Human Porcupines & loose as hell

  • 1 decade ago

    try doing it on your side. I know it was certainly more comfortable for me in that position. And lots of lube. Take it slow and easy and make sure she knows that if the pain becomes to much to bear you can stop. Make sure she doesn't feel obligated to have sex with you despite the pain just because your dating.

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  • 1 decade ago

    See a doctor...you normally don't get this sort of situation too often, I'm assuming. Normally its the other way around! You really can't help it that your hung like a horse :)

  • 1 decade ago

    She'll get used to it after a while, then she'll start appreciating you size. Trust me. Just take it real slow the first few times.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    monster D&#$ ! I've never heard of a women that wanted a small penis, Try some type of lube and see how she likes it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just take your time with her. Maybe she has always been with smaller guys and doesn't know what to do with a big one. Be gentle

  • Amy L
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Ask your doctor what you can do. Maybe some sex positions or such?

    If this is a joke, maybe she wasn't crying cuz it was too big, maybe the other way around. Jk. Lol!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    seymour butts makes something called the Not Too Deep doughnut...try it

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