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HER PARENTS WONT LET ME SEE HER!!!!?

Im 33 years old and she is 19 I know is a big gap we know each other since she was in junior high by means of common friends, we started dating in February but now her parents wont let me see her or they will disown her, Im not a bad person and I have always been there to help them, homework, research, tutoring, we went out to have fun, the parents just dont want me near her period, they wont meet with me or what to know me, my gf of course is scared, and want to end it all, what advise could you give me or her on how to proceed? we do love each other very much, she is Taiwanese and I'm Mexican (not that it matters) thanks for your help in advance....

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  • 1 decade ago
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    ugh man thats a big mess. So you have a g/f and want to leave her for a 19 year old? what so when you like 45 you leave your wife for a 29 year old. let it alone, her parents have made it clear and she has to by listening to them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you were to marry out of her parents' will, imagine the in-laws you will have. When two people marry, they also marry the families. Technically, it is legal for you two to be together since she is no longer a minor. But the law can be touchy, as she is still dependent on her parents one way or another and therefore under the parents' control. If you can't imagine a relatively happy family with her parents now, then it may never work out.

  • 1 decade ago

    well to be honest i wont really blame them if i were u ,..age gap is really important when it comes to r/ships ........ur 33 and mature ..she is just 19 and not even a full adult she has so much to learn and experience in life.......... u should probably look for a person closer to ur age ....

  • 1 decade ago

    not to sound stereotypical or even racist, but maybe her parents don't trust anyone that are not her race? they are probably forcing her to focus more on school and not to dilly dally with men.. there could be a possibility that the parents are racist against latinos..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Move on. She needs someone more on her level and you need someone on yours.

    Really if she loves you then she will come back when she is ready.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Chat with her on msn

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