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what does it mean when a girl ends a letter with x o x o x o and which is hugs and which kisses?

she says she just wants to be friends cause i'm going thru a divorce. but i think that there may be more there than just friends...like chemistry. we talk on the phone for hours. she left some of her stuff in my car, i think probably on purpose. think she';s just a friend or playing hard to get?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think people reverse these because the saying is "hugs and kisses" but the symbols are as follows:

    x= kisses

    o= hugs

    What about her actions (it's what people do, not what they say that reveals their true self) shows anything like "hard to get"? I would say she is a nice girl who allows the man to "make the first move" and she has dropped you enough hints to leave a crater in the ground! The only thing that may be holding her back is the inappropriate timing. Good for her! She's a keeper!

    I would recommend waiting until the divorce is final before you get really serious with anyone if your spouse wasn't the one who wanted the divorce. You loved her enough to marry her, now end it with dignity for her (and ultimately yourself). But.. if she or you both initiated the divorce and wish each other well, then START YOUR ENGINE and date, but keep any new girl out of the divorce proceedings in every way possible. It's best for her and it's best for you and it is only right that you end the marriage completely before you go past the casual date phase with a new sweetheart.

    If kids are involved, again, wait until after the divorce and be sure to introduce her to them slowly and carefully and NEVER put her above their mother.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I say xoxo to everyone after a messege. I wouldnt be to into it yet. Just wait and see what happens, if she really likes you then she'll flirt but she prob thinks that your having a bad time with this divorce so she might not flirt until the whole divorce thing is all cleared up and done with.

    xoxo!

    lol

    X=Kisses

    O=Hugs

    thats why at the end of love note they always have XXX cuz it kiss kiss kiss not im gonna hug you three times....thats just retarted

  • 1 decade ago

    It usually means they like you. I am sure the only reason she doesn't want anything more right now is due to the fact that you are going through a divorce. Most people don't want to get caught up in the middle of something like that. The X's are kisses and the O's are hugs

  • 1 decade ago

    It probably means nothing. Give her time to get through her divorce before thinking she means anything by writing a few letters.

    X = hugs..think of arms crossing in a hug.

    O = kisses..think of mouths. :D

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  • 1 decade ago

    She is a friend but wants you to make the first move. She does care about you and is telling you in her own little way. You just have to make the first move. So, if you like her then go for it. She doesn't want to overstep any boundries. So, Im sorry to say if you feel for her then make the move.

  • 1 decade ago

    She is definitely interested. And the 'x's are hugs (think arms embracing) and the 'o's are kisses (think the shape your mouth makes when you kiss!)

    Good luck with the divorce!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    The correct thing is that O=Kisses and X=Hugs Your logic is correct..:) Hope I helped..!! Gøød Luck..!!

  • dont do anyting until you are completely and legally divorced from your spouse! if you do anything, i dont care if it is even a kiss, while you are still married, i will consider you one of the worst people. anyways, x= hugz o= kisses but thats doesnt nessicarily mean she likes you, its just a cute girl thing that girls do a lot.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    the x symbolizes 2 people kissing and the o is for a hug

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe she has feelings for you but she doesn't want to be in a relationship since you just got out of one.

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