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I am not doing to well, and i need someone to talk to?
I have fallen in love with a man that does not love me back. Everything is going wrong for me now, not just becouse of him, life in general, I seem i can can not get a grasp on it. Why do things have to be so difficult. This man means the world to me and I screwed it up cause of my problems, i scared him away. I have hurt myself several times, by cutting myself cause the pain is so bad, my only way to feel better, but later I feel even worse. It is so hard to get help, even with insurance. I realize I am not right, doint know what to do. Be nice to have someone that understands.
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
you sound so sincere and I feel for you. I hope you get thru this heartbreak. do know this, time heals all wounds. You first need to love yourself and believe that you are worthy. because a man doesn't want you doesn't mean your not worthy of love.I know it hurts from deep within I know I've been there. surround yourself with family and friends because they love you unconditionally. Don't give him power he wasn't born with. Love yourself and then love you some more. If you don't love yourself how do you expect someone else to love you? You have so much love to offer the right man, So concentrate on finding your real soul mate because you deserve to be happy not miserable. and stop hurting yourself you don't deserve that. good luck I'll pray for you.
- 1 decade ago
Be strong! Knowing that you need help is a huge step! DON'T CUT! I know why you want to, but try not to. Try anything else; write and write and write, go running, get a punching bag, crank up whatever music agrees with you. There are better ways to deal that really do work. I'm sorry about the guy. Relationships are tricky. But you should really work on you before you move on into a relationship. You have to love yourself before anyone else can be expected to love you. Send me an email if you want. ^_^ Good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Nothing is as bad as it seems,it just looks that way right now but it will get better trust me.?Somewhere in the near future you will look back and laugh about it.Dont forget there are plenty more fishes in the sea,Life is a ****** right now for me with my health,but i have to keep telling myself it could be worse.Cutting yourself wont do you any good (apart from the pain what good does it do ?) i wish i could have a day without pain (i pray for a day without it) you have heard the old saying i felt bad cause i had no shoes until i seen the guy with no feet.If i were you id go see my doctor and explain how you feel,it wont hurt will it ?Please try for your sake and your family...Hugs + Kisses going your way right now...........................Liz.
- 1 decade ago
cutting yourself is definitely not the solution. keep that head up & don't give up. that special person will come your way soon enough so don't worry about it. it takes time & life will always be a challenge, but you gotta take that challenge on & grow from it, it will only make you stronger in the end.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
*pats reassuringly on back* you're a good person. Don't worry. You'll get through it.