i need advice.. im so confused?

shes probably blaming all of u guys for her divorce...has a sit down with her if shes willing to listen...but dont move back in...even if ur parents are begging u. Not to blame ur parents or anything but if they saw the problem in the beginning they should have solved it...

Maybe no one from your family put some sense into her or if someone attempted they ended up fighting more. Your sister has problems and you need to talk to her before making a decision because in the end you're still the one who needs to decide. I think that you're sister is insecure with all the things that happened to her, talk to her and tell her how you feel let her know that your family would have a harmonious relationship if all of you would work together and as much as possible avoid arguing. You said it started 15 years ago, doesn't she get tired? Anger is an exhausting feeling. Anyway I hope you would find the answer soon.

perhaps no one out of your loved ones positioned some experience into her or if somebody tried they ended up battling extra. Your sister has issues and you may desire to talk to her before making a call by way of fact interior the top you're nonetheless the guy who needs to ascertain. i think of which you're sister is insecure with each and all of the failings that got here approximately to her, check along with her and tell her the way you experience enable her comprehend that your loved ones could have a harmonious dating if all of you may paintings jointly and as much as a threat ward off arguing. You reported it began 15 years in the past, does not she get drained? Anger is an onerous feeling. besides i'm hoping you may detect the respond quickly.

Your little boy doesnt need to grow up with all that negativity. Stay where you are unless your parents make your sister move out. Think of the boy and what he needs.

The sooner you get out on your own and become independent, the better you will feel about yourself. Your mother needs to let you go and get rid of your sister so she can enjoy the next stage of her life, the way she's meant to.

you need to become more independent....Have your own place and take care of your child..there are programs you can be in that will help you with jobs or education...that is your answer...you dont want to depend on mom forever

sounds like your sister has deep issues. you could make her leave if she doesnt go to counselling. but first of all, if you cannot be happy there at all, dont go. your well-being and happiness means your stepson can also be happy. if you are miserable, so will he be.

your mother needs to get a backbone. she needs to give your sister a couple of weeks to move. if she won't, have law enforcement remove her.

Don't move back.