How do I accept that I was rejected by my ex, and just move on?

I've been there!!!!! eventually you keep busy and realize it's not going to be, so you start making new goals for yourself: start going out with friends more: date more often and just carry on the same way as before you even knew him in the first place.It's been 28 years since this has happened to me and I've never seen him since.(he moved away)

The answer is easy, just hard to do sometimes. Just accept the fact that you & your ex are in two different places in your life right now. Part of the problem could be pride too. NOBODY likes to be rejected even when it "could" be the wrong move to be trying to get back with them. Take it with stride & accept it & hope that this is the hardest thing that you will have to deal with in life. You'll be fine & try not to feel so bad. Cheers to you on taking a new route!

Rejection and how we deal with it is the preparation for the bigger areas of rejection we have to face in life. It is never easy to 'just move on' if we still have not been given a reason that makes sense to us as to why the break up?

Moving on is easy for some not so for others. The most important thing is accept invitations of going out with friends, be out there and have fun. Feeling happy takes practice as does feeling down.

Life is to be experienced and enjoyed with out the angst we don't know what the joy and laughter is.

Be grateful for the experience that you have with your ex, all of the joys that it brought you, and how it made you into a better person or will. Then write down a list of qualities you want in a new mate. Focus on that instead and just know that there's somebody out there with all of these qualities waiting for you. Be open to new possibilities. Work on yourself, to make yourself happy. Either your ex will come back or you will find someone new. Good luck.

there is no easy way to move but it something that we all have to come to terms with and do. Me i tried the counseling thing and it didnt work for me I finally found that i made a couple friends that i go out with to atleast try to have fun and not be miserable and its a mutual understanding that we are just friends with nothing more that is the way i try to move on i know it sounds a little screwey but i think that we all deal differently

Find several things you enjoy doing (a hobby) or try learning a skill you haven't ever learned.... Occupy your time in a constructive manner ( learning and progressing in life ) .... you'll forget all about it.... don't define yourself by who you are with..... make something of yourself for yourself.... and someone will eventually come along that loves you and all you have built yourself to be!

Remember that moment when he told you no how you felt and everytime you think of him and miss him replay it in your head and it should help.

Easy. Find someone else.

Get a new man

love your self you are to good to dwell on someone that was unable to see that you were the best thing that ever happened to him.