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I am getting married and am a virgin. he is also virgin.i feel like its not gonna be pleasant.?

I think on the wedding night it is supposed to have sex and it feels like pressure to me. I just feel hope less. My firends have been telling me that I have to let go of the fear but I can't do that.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    how can it not be pleasant. the good thing is that you both have never been with anyone before. he can't say you're terrible because he's never had anything before. relax, enjoy your wedding night and you guys don't really have to have sex that night, you know?

  • 1 decade ago

    It's okay to feel uncomfortable or afraid. My wife and I were both virgins too. Don't expect fireworks the first time. But don't worry about it either. You are both exploring this together. What do you have to feel pressued about? I'm guessing it will just be you and he in the room, and he will already have publicly vowed his love for you. I'm sure he won't be judgemental.

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