Do you think I should break up with him?

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There's this guy who really likes me, so one day, he asked me to be his gf. I thought that I would give him a chance, so I said yes. It's only been just a week that we've been going out. His feelings for me are still as strong....But as for me, I still can't decide whether or not I like him. I mean, I have fun when I'm around him and he makes me feel good. But, other than hugging, I can't imagine doing anything else, like kissing, with him. My friend had told me that if I did like my bf, then I would know, but I'm still confused. Sometimes it feels like I do but, overall, I'm not 100% sure that I do like him. Do you think I should break up with him or should I stay with him and see if my uncertainty will change?

Ryah · Accepted Answer

i think you guys should be kissing friends. and then you will figure out if you like him or not. but friends

Anonymous · Answer

there is more to being in love than kissing and making out, if you feel like that sometimes thats okay but if you felt like it all the time you're just selfish and wanting your own pleasure rather than his happiness. (in my opinion any way) plus it depends on how old you are because when you are still in school (like myself) than you're still too young, do you know what you wanna do with you're life, what goals you have for the future? the biggest thing though in my opinion is if you have the same longterm goals, if you're goals change and you're both going to different places than how can you stay together?

TPete · Answer

you should probably give it a little more than a week... a lot can change, but in this case i think you are dating him out of pity and not like....or even love, so i doubt the feelings will change much....if in two weeks it hasn't changed leave...don't stay because it's unfair to you and most importantly to him  he needs a girl that will know she loves him from the moment she meets him and frankly i don't think that is you good luck

it&#39;s_love · Answer

it's only been a week...there's no rule that you have to kiss someone within the first week of dating them. it sounds like you just like him as a friend, or that you don't really want to be in a relationship. if you don't think the relationship will last, then spare the guy's feelings now.

yogi · Answer

The answer is in the question: break up. 

When you really love your someone, you simply don't ask yourself this question. 

Good luck! :o)

Anonymous · Answer

think if u break up with him you might get felling then u might can't get back with him u should ride it out  2 more weeks if it dont work break up

^^ANGEL^^ · Answer

it's has been just a week ..give the man a chance ..stay with him ..and try intimacy with him ..if you don't like it break up with him ..but don't judge before trying it ..

Anonymous · Answer

yes you havn't met the right one yet if you  cant kiss him keep him as a really close friend though

~**casandra**~ · Answer

i think you should give it more time
buti think you should get some space. you dont know what you have until u lost it. or maybe you were just ment to be friends

ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ · Answer

you should not waste your time and his and if you dont like him break up cus in the end it could be worse

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