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How can I make the bullies stop?

Every day i am bullied by all of the kids in my class and I get upset becouse what they say is so hurtful my parents know but they to to walk awy but where too that does not work at all. Help me please!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    well. i've been in this situation before. the people who think they are better then everyone else bully you. you should go to the office. but go alone dont bring any friends with you. i would just go to the office by yourself and tell them what has been going on. and if it still continues then you just have to learn to ignore them. i know its hard but they're going to grow up to be the biggest losers even though it may seem like there so cool now. in 10 years they are gonna have no friends at all .and you are gonna have tons! trust me.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would go to the principal's office and have a talk with him, so that's it's on the record that you had a meeting with him. Tell him that you are tired of being bullied, and you have done everything you can to walk away from it without any physical altercations.

    Tell him now that you've brought it to his attention, you will trust that the principal will do something about it. Give him a week. Tell the principal that there comes a point when you have to defend yourself, and stand up for yourself, but you want to give him the opportunity to stop it peacefully.

    If he doesn't stop it, tell the principal the next time you are bullied, you will stand up for yourself and defend yourself. Now obviously this does NOT mean using guns, knives, shives, or anything else that will cause bad injuries, but use your fists to defend yourself.

    I don't care what other parents might say about "peaceful solutions" and "non-violence." There comes a time when you stand up for yourself and show boys you won't be pushed around any longer. Even if you don't win the fight, you will gain respect from them for standing up for yourself.

    But be sure you get it on record that you approached the principal in person (you may even want to write a letter to him, give it to him, and keep a copy for yourself. Make sure it's dated.) If the principal doesn't stop it, you will.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, are you an easy target? are there things that you have going on that really need to be changed? Is it honestly something you are doing?

    nobody deserves to be bullied, you have to stand up for yourself, or you will be a target your whole life. It seems you lack confidence, and a little of that goes a long way.

    if it's verbal teasing, i assume it's the same stuff they say all the time. you need to answer back with wise *** remarks in turn. Don't be afraid if it comes to a physical confrontation. If you are smaller, and there are a group of them, jump on the biggest one, and be ruthless, usually then they will think twice before starting up a fight again. Remember if you get your *** kicked, you get your *** kicked. People do eventually change and develop. When you get upset, you are showing them that they are above you. Just because they say something, doesn't mean it has to affect you. i mean if someone came up to you with a plastic bag of poop and said "here take this" would you? probably not. and then what is left? that person trying to give you the poop is stuck holding the poop. believe me kid, i speak from experience, you are a person of value, remember that well. because later in life you will look at what most of those people are doing and have the last laugh. they usually are in and out of jail, drug addicts and people that can't handle responsibility.

    It all starts with you , think about it.

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    5 years ago

    Go look for the biggest guy in school or where ever you live and ask him if he would do you a favor. Then go to the bully and with this big Brut standing next to you, say to him, "this is my friend Brutus and we don't want to hear any teasing from you any more. Do you understand? Because if you continue to do this, Brutus and I will have to retaliate and I don't think you would like that. So we suggest you stop.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Kick their ***!!! That's the only way I got respect from these stupid bitches I knew, they never bothered me again. Break their nose like in Ms. Congeniality that was like so funny! Sure you'll get in trouble for a while but come on who doesn't these days? But don't start the fight only finish it if some poor bastard tries to take a poke at you. Stand up for your self, let them know who's the boss! Only defend yourself if you know you're getting in serious trouble. Use your words, make the bullies angry say things to them, but keep your distance and watch your back. I hope this helped you, now be safe and take care.

  • 1 decade ago

    Can you ask to get transferred to another school? Talk to the principal - name names. It is obvious the parents of these kids need to get invovled becasue there is no good reason why you shouldn't be able to go to school without the fear of being harassed. They wouldn't let this sort of behavior continue if this was in a work place.

    Go the school board if you have to. Get some big guns in there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you right just walkin away will not work. if you walk away they are going to know you are scared and keep bothering you. the thing you do is ....(just suggestions)

    ~tell administrators in the building

    ~walk in big groups so that they wont bother you becasue it will be more of youll than them

    ~ call the police and have a family member take you to the police station and file a report against him!

    ~If they still come back after you go to the police...FIGHT BACK!Dont let them do this to you!becasue they are only gonna keep coming back!

    Hoped i helped!

  • 1 decade ago

    The Bible teach us about David who was small and Goliath was so big. David trusted in God in his situation and God defended David from the giant Goliath!. Ask God in prayer to defend you from those who abuse you, I'm sure he will, but do not respond with violence, leave up to God.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You can either keep ignoring them and stop lettnig it get to you. Or you can Punch one them square in the face and tell them to shut their mouth!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    SLAP DEM ACROSS DA DANG FACE YO!

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