checking my boy friend cell phone?

my gf checks my cell. its pretty normal. ur just tryin 2 get 2 kno him better & figure out how well u can trust him.

Not everyone matures at the same rate. Not everyone is in a situation where a cell phone is needed often enough to justify the expense and effort. Deserving something implies that it is not necessary or useful , but, rather based on a supposition that it is a reward. Just as a cellphone is useful for easing the mind with a conversation a boy friend that is not "ahead of his time" may be useful in the social development of a 12 year old. Confrontational attitude should be reserved for problems arising from such mix of new situations. The ability to handle the situations should be derived from amiable discussions before such time.

You need to get more secure with yourself. The reason you are doing these things is because you are insecure. If he has not cheated on you, or has not shown any signs of cheating on you then you need to get to love yourself. Go to the library and get some books on the subject of self esteem. Read and follow the books. You might also want to try a professional counselor.

dont be a snoop unless you ahve to be. If you feel he is not honest with you the n by all means snoop get that evidence and leave. DO NOT obsess over it especially if he is perfectly normal and not doing anything wrong then dont break the trust bond. Trust is the number one reason to be with someone. Maybe you need to look within you and see what you are projecting onto him. Be secure and if you arent then leave relationships alone

I think you are very insecure and that may be something due to your past...you may have to seek what in the past has happened to you in other relationships that make you feel that this man may do the same thing to you as that has ben done to you in the past.

I think you are the only one that can really answer this question but at least now you may have a lead on what you can do to resolve it.

dont do that! if he sees or finds out that you are checking his phone then ur in trouble and if you really feel like he is or might be cheating on you then the best thing you can do is tell him how you feel, this may sound wierd but its better then him finding you with his cell! hope this helps!

I am guilty of this too. Try your best not to do that because without trust you don't have much else in a relationship. If you have not found anything yet I would think he is not doing anything.

Plan a night out with the girls....or something to keep your mind off of doing this. Or ask him to change his passwords and not give u his phone.

There is no reason to do this if he hasn't given you a reason to. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything...if has does nothing to give you a reason to look through his phone, that should be reason enough for you to stop.

My girlfriend checks my cell phone all the time actually every day and it really dont bother me. If he aint hiding nothin than it wont bother him.

You have to stop on your own, convince yourself that he would not cheat on you. Or you could talk to him about it, ask him if he would cheat on you. If you really trust him you'll believe what he says.