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Someone, anyone, please calm me down!!! I'm so furious...?

Please read my other question to find out the whole situation, but what it is in a nutshell is that my boyfriend cheated on me with this hobag s l u t and then broke up with me. He didn't do it to my face and never told me that he did what he did. Anyways, today, he goes over to me, points and laughs at me through the doorway. He did this childish thing twice!! I don't know what the hell he is laughing at, but I'm going to make sure he doesnt laugh again...To add onto the uneeded drama, that whore that he cheated on me with comes over to me and my best friend and says that we were saying stuff about her, which we weren't. She is just asking for us to kick her dumb ***. I got so mad at the both of them that my best friend that I was with had to take walk me outside to calm down. lol. I saw his dumb self in the hallway and I was about to explode at him. I want to f*** them up so bad, both of them, but I don't want to get suspended with only a week left. Their not worth my time but

Update:

I can't control my anger. I tell my friend not to leave me alone or I might do something that I might regret. She has a bigger temper then I do and she will cut her up if she keeps saying stuff. The thing is though, I know she's not worth it. She brought my best friend in the whole mess and it has nothing to do with her, she doesn't deserve to be put down like this by something that she isn't a part of. But, this b**** brought her into it. There is a war and this is only the tip of the iceberg. I tell my buddy to hold me back all the time because i don't want to fight her, but I am so mad at the both of them. What do I do? How can I let it go and get my anger down? I see them both every day and I want to f*** them both up so bad. I have a lot of people who have my back, but I know it isn't worth it. Please people, give me advice!! This is so messed up, I wish I wasn't a part of it. This is all his fault and he knows it. He LAUGHED at me, and I don't even know why. He thinks its a joke.

Update 2:

Excuse me, people up top, what is wrong with you? You must not have read the whole thing if you're going to say stupid stuff like that! I need advice because I am on edge right now! I'm going to beat both their asses. We've already broken up , thank you very much. And by the way, he wasn't like this when we were going out. He did this completely out of nowhere. He's so dumb and I do deserve better, but there is no way to drop this matter. There is going to be a war whether I like it or not. I just can't wait till this is all over. Everybody fights at the end of the year, I just hope I don't follow the pattern. She's not worth it, but she better not start what she can't finish, I'm going to say that once. I know better, I just hope my friends can hold me back...And Kia, sweetie, you're the one who needs to get a life...

Update 3:

I do ignore him and I try to ignore her. They are noth such dumbasses. By the way, those people that are saying I am immature, I am not. He is a douche bag and needs his *** kicked. Every time he laughs at me, I just ignore his stupid, f***ing ***. He's not worth it and I will move on, but he needs to be taught a huge lesson. By the way, that girl is already known as the school whore and nobody likes her because she's a bigtime b*tch. Everyone tells me that he's the one who lost out, and that she's a super s l u t. She'll "hit it, then quit it" as one person put.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Personally break-ups suck. That's just the way it is. Now I know you want to get even, so I'm not going to fault you on that. We're human we all want some payback. You how to do that is, find the hotter guy. Forget about the sucker. If there is one thing I know about women, that is women can get whoever they want. Now I'm not saying being a sex-ho..... I'm thinking more on the lines of being a sexpot. Lure Him in. About this other girl. If she crosses that line (you know touches you or something) stomp that ***. But if she's just walking around aimlessly asking who's talking about her, possibly she gave someone the crabs and your ex-boyfriend has 'em. In that case when you talk to your ex, you can always put your hand over your face when you talk because you don't want to catch what he's got. Live your life and have fun. Forget the punk, he doesn't know a fine dime from a nickel. You don't want a dude like that Anyways. If you do want him....Please keep your retard children away from my kids at the playground... hollaback.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hes not much of a man... I know your pretty pissed right now. But just calm down and try to think rationally.. One, I know its tempting to go kick both of there asses right now. Sure if you did go do that you would only make things worse for you. You said it yourself, you have one week of school left. Dont do it. Another thing, do not put yourself through this drama. If there both going to be like that then the scumbags deserve each other. Just drop the whole thing.. forget about it. You and your best friend just need to go out and have fun... forget about the stupid stuff your guy and the hoe bag are doing... why waste energy on people that are just looking to create drama in your life. Drop em and move on seriously.. its not worth it.. There are better men out there that know how to treat a lady..

  • 1 decade ago

    Look...if u wanna fight her, fight her. But not in skool. Ur never gonna get over this unless u let out ur frustration. NOw regarding the guy, if he keeps laughin at u or tryin to show off dat he's with that s l u t, den he might still have feelings for u. So, just get a cuter guy and be really flirtatious in front of him, without being a wH0r3. That'll take care of him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Cool....breath deep....easy, there are better guys out there.

    OK, if he did that to you, he obviously did not care about you for real, so you should be glad that it is over. Look around you for you old friends, when you have a boyfriend you always neglect your friends to some extent, so get busy with your friends.

    And ignore him and the girl. He will possibly do it over again, maybe he had even done it before, and the girl will get payed back even by him.

    Do stuff you like, get your mind off of him, he is not worth your time, and might just be looking to provoke you, and get you in trouble.

    Just take a deep breath, go to a good friend and vent.....it will be ok.

    Ok, keep your calm girl, you need to quit thinking about him!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your ex is an idiot and the girl is a major slutbag what a whore. I think that you should move one and perhaps find someone else when your ready(much hotter ofcourse) or if they persist then beat both of their a** after school, that way you won't get suspended and you would have given them the most painful most biggest etc...a** kicking the two of them have ever experienced...but if you don't want to risk the idea of you getting beat-up instead then go with option numero uno.....goodluck

  • 1 decade ago

    Be the bigger person and just leave it be. Maybe not now but soon they realize how stupid they acted. Be happy u got rid of the guy because now ur free to find someone with more brain then to act like a 2 year old

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I completely understand. My boyfriend cheated on me a week after our SON was born. With his ex, whom has been threatening to kick my *** for years. This happened 3 months ago but I still cry about it every day and night. You just have to calm down and try to forget what happened. Move on and find someone better. In my case he didn't break up with me, just wanted sex. It was meaningless and we ended up staying together. But in your case, I'm sure someone will go out with you, and then you can show that scum bag that there's nothing he can do to get you down.

    Keep your head up doll,

    TwiGGyTuesday

  • 1 decade ago

    it seems like these two are getting something out of bothering you. i really feel that you're hurting yourself even more by allowing them to speak with you... just ignore them if you can. tell them straight out that you don't want to speak to either of them. be firm with them, but keep calm and collected. if he laughs at you again, ignore him or laugh back! DO NOT get involved with either of them, especially in terms of fighting. this will only end up hurting you, i swear. forget this guy and put your precious time towards someone who deserves it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not worth the trouble. Just keep in mind that you only have a week left and you won't have to deal with it at all after that.

    Just think that he will always be remembered as a dumb*** and she will be known as the school tramp.

    Trust me into 5 years you will laugh at the situation.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes you need to calm down. Get a boyfriend that will treat you the way you want to be treated, that would be the best revenge. Getting mad and exploding solves nothing.

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