just curious. anybody here lost a girlfriend because you went to serve your country in the military?, NS?

I haven't, but my ex boyfriend (we didn't break up because he was in the military) lost his girlfriend because he got deployed, he said she couldn't deal with it. I think it's sad. A girl should understand what comes with dating someone in the military and should support them. At least that's how I think.

I felt proud to be able to support my ex while he was overseas fighting for the country. And to be able to keep his spirits up.

no This hasn't happened to me, but if my man went to serve my country, I wouldn't break up with him or anything. I would keep contact, and I wouldn't cheat. I mean I hate hearing other women saying stuff like " if he goes its over" Im actually disgusted by the fact..

i didn't lost it coz i was in the military she passed away .. and it's feels horriable really till now can't forget her and i still love her missed her so much and i don't know how to move on

If so...you never really lost anything...not worth keeping anyhow.