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advice dudess, ( i'd say girls only but wateva)?

whoa cant believe i resorted to asking strangers lol.

see theres this girl i like or love were goood friends and idk what to tell her i can be pretty shy for this at times specially since i know her since a long time ago.

i also fear ruining our friendship if she doesnt like me back

what do i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Maybe just go out and ask her if she has ever had feelings for you. If she asks why simply say that you think you may be developing feelings her and if theres any chance thoughs feels will have any hope. Something like that. And if it ends out that she doesn't like you just try to keep things casual and not seem to hurt. Try not to let your friendship be hurt at all by ignoring her. Best of luck to you tho. (I'm a guy btw but just felt like answering your question, had to go through this once myself.)

  • 1 decade ago

    As a woman speaking. I would say at least let her know about your feelings. If she doesn't feel the same way just be emphatic about how important her friendship is to you still and that you wouldn't want to lose it. No harm no foul. You need to at least open that door other wise you will end up building up with hostility every time she speaks of the opposite sex. Woman don't usually back off from friends if they have a crush. That is usually a man thing. We don't spook easily. Go for it.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm just like you man...I did this once and told the girl...she didn't like me back and I felt like crap for a few days...but in the end I know it was better than sitting there wondering what could have been if I didn't

    my advice would be to go for it man as I sense you're mostly coming here for encouragement to do it and push you over the edge

    so good luck man hope it works out for ya

  • 1 decade ago

    well, you could just tell her, but yea, if she doesnt like you back, then you'll be heart broken. but if you have a great relationship like you say you do, something like this shouldnt ruin it. also, act on it now, b/c 10 yrs from now, u wont wanna look back and say "what would have happened". but dont get yourself too worked up about it. try not to give urself any false hopes!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    try to get a feel for how she feels about you...does she flirt back with you, spend a lot of time with you, that kind of thing.

    It's also always good to have a friend you both have in common do the dirty work - have this friend talk to her and casually bring up that you two would make a cute couple, and what she would think of that.

  • 1 decade ago

    ask her how she feels about you. tell her you dont want your friendship to be awkward, but you were just wondering because youre starting to like her more than just a friend. if it ruins the friendship, its better to know than to keep wondering "what if?" your whole life. who knows, maybe she likes you too and is too shy to ask you. good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    you should ask yourself if you think she has an feelings towards you what so over. If she does go for it. If you aren't sure then i would ask one of her friends her friend probadly will know who she likes. Good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just take a chance. It might b worth it. GL! Btw, nice language... lol... GL!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Take a stand. Be a man, do it

  • 1 decade ago

    do what ur heart wants u 2 do

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