Girl Help!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!??

I suppose you could always b*tchslap him and tell him to get over it...hahaha

And he's a DORK he's like this girl FOR five years and only asked her out 8months ago? and i thought I was bad...wow.

you could always forge a note to her and him saying

meet me [insert place]

at [insert time]

I need to tell you a quick thing [or help in homework whatev]

[insert name]

and send that note to the both of them then you go there, hide and watch what happens...

get rid of this 'hate' between you and this girl firstly. Just say ' school's about to end. I'm sorry about the s**t that I did. I was young and stupid.' When all is well, then start talking 2 her - A LOT - and slowly re-build the relation with the gil. Then talk 2 her bout the guy n get em 2gether. What u sayin bout a Kleenex - uit that #REALLY how much u value the friendship? EWW - you is a sick friend

It's just not that easy buddy. This is your friends first lesson in love. He needs to ride it out. If you try to fix his problem by fixing them back up, that's like putting a bandade on the problem. It will just happen all over again. The crying should stop after a couple of weeks. After he gets over the hump,his broken heart will start to heel. Try to keep him busy, play football or something to get his mind off of her. Don't take no for an answer. It is a terrible mistake to set him back up with her.....I repeat- don't do it.

I would try to contact her via email or phone or text message. Or if that doesn't work, leave a note taped to her door asking her to call you. When you finally make contact, just tell her that your friend is very messed up over the breakup, and you are trying to be a good friend and see what can be done. Ask her about her feelings over the breakup, but MAKE SURE YOU REMAIN NEUTRAL. Don't point fingers or blame anything on either side, otherwise she will break off all communication with you. Try to be a sypathetic ear for her to talk to. Ask her what your friend would have to do to make things right betweent them. Find out all her concerns and issues then report back to your buddy about what she said.

From that point forward it is up to him. If he is man enough he will mend whatever problems exist, but if he is too immature to solve the problems, or if the problems are unsolvable, then you will just have to ignore him until he stops being a crybaby. If that happens, remember the best cure for a broken heart is finding a new girl to take his mind off the old one.

I think your friend is lucky to have a friend as caring as you. If she wont come anywhere near you I suggest you get her number off your friends phone, ring her up, ask her not to hang up on you, you only want to chat & ask her why they split up and ask her if there is any chance of them getting back together. Tell her he is devastated they have split up and she might come running back. If she says no chance then unfortunately you will have to leave it at that. Then you should take your friend out and have a laugh he will eventually forget about her and will value you as a friend.

PS only tell her your friend is devastated if she seems like she still cares as you do not want her telling everyone and making a fool out of him

hey im rele new to this thing!

well............... maybe you should talk to this gurl stop her frm running away and just talk to her!! first say ur rele rele sorry and want to talk about the dating situation between them. get her to write down the good points about ur mayte and make him do the same and discus them with them point out all the good times they had together! sometimes relationships just dont work out. maybe they hav exhausted it. but there is sometimes still hope!

hope i was a bit of help!

xxx

The obvious answer has nothing to do with HER. Talk to your friend - tell him that it's weighing on you that you are his kleenex all the time. If he is struggling with the breakup this much, maybe he should see a counsellor.

u cant force the girl to love ur friend , n if they were to get bk 2gether again it wouldnt b fair on ur friend, for he wud b in a false relationship. still support ur friend even if its begining to rag u down n help him move on, theres no point in him dwellin on this, its all part of growin up n theres plently more fish in the sea.(well girls but u catch my wave sorry bad pun!)

Talk to him - maybe he can talk to her and see if there is a way to work it out. Or send flowers to her with a card saying good luck on exams - When they are done - please call him and see if you can work this out as he is my best friend and I know he really cares about you.

Girls that age don't know what they want. He will have to get over her - & it won't be easy or take little time. Find him someone better than her. That's the only way he'll get over her.