Why do wemon not like nice guys?

Trust me, girls love nice guys. Since they are not getting into any serious relationships with him, they think it is cool to be pushed around by some arrogant guy. I hate guys like that. I would totally go for you. In the long run, you will go farther because people will truly like you, and they will just think of your brother as a lazy guy to hook up with.

...here is the answer to your problem... yes, girls love bad boys... but you can still be nice and be a bad boy. Bad boy doesn't mean you habe to treat them like dirt. It just means you have to keep them guessing and make them curious to get to know you better and wonder what you are feeling. Sounds like you still wear your heart on your sleeve. Nothing wrong with the way you are handling things (opening car doors and all that) - I think the stuff you should probably work on is how affectionate or how available you are to these women. When you see them, it's fine to be like that. Women appreciate it. The key is to care - without letting on too much that you care -- until you know they feel the same way. Your brother sounds like he is onto something - but that he might be playing a little tough rough on the field. Treating someone like dirt isn't cool and will give him a bad rep eventually.

Women do like nice guys. Unfortunately, a lot of women do not believe they deserve the nice guy or that the nice guy could possibly like her. Plus, a lot of women are looking for the adventure and excitement they think they will get from the bad boys.

From an evolutionary stand point. In nature females are drawn to the most adventurous and brave males for strengthening the species. Some will mate with them and then turn to the males that are good providers to help raise the offspring.

WOMEN would be the correct spelling. but to answer your question. nice guys finish last. there are ways of still being a nice guy but also getting what you want. stop opening doors all the time, there are independent women amongst us today. listening is a must with any body male or female. you gots to be pushy sometimes don't let her run you over, thats why she runs to the alpha male. dude just relax and don't worry about it when you least expect it you've snagged a girl that you like.

You aren't talking about women, you are talking about girls. Girls are silly and only see what a guy looks like and think men have to be all macho and tough. Once a girl grows into a women, usually because she is tired of being treated like crap, she appreciates the good guy. You will be much happier if you stay true to yourself. Wait till you find the right one, she is out there and will love all the little things you do for her. You sound like a keeper. Good Luck!

Here's the thing.

You may well be confusing,"nice" with a shy,introvert.

You may also be confusing "treats them like dirt" with outgoing and playful.

And you may also not realize that it is you, that the reason you don't know why the "wemon" are not interested in you. Simply put, you are not interesting.

Dont become a bad guy. Stay nice. Girls like bad guys cause they show them the wild side kinda crap blah blah blah. But in the end what every girl is looking for is a nice guy that will treat them like a princess. They will get over the bad guys trust me! I dated alot of bad guys in the past but then i relized that why am i going out with someone that will hurt me in the end now im dating a good guy that doesnt treat me that way there is one example. Dont loose the good guy in you girls will come around!

Women say they want a nice guy, but biologically they are attracted to the mean guy. Why? Because they are attracted to strength. That doesn't mean Arnie type muscles. Strength can be many things, and has most to do with confidence.

What you need to do is stop putting a woman up on a pedestal and stop worrying if you are going to offend them. Instead you need to take control of the situation and do things on your terms, not theirs. Its nice to do things on their terms but its against their instinct to do so... Because evolution, their attraction is based on strength, and if you cater to them, they will see it as a weakness, and not be attracted.

The best thing to do is think of it like this: You are on a road, walking towards your destination. If a woman wants to join you on the journey, thats great, however, that doesn't mean you are going to wait around, change direction, stop to smell the roses, or start taking the path she is taking.

Follow that idea and you'll be much more successful.

Are you a first born? Your brother a last born or a middle born guy? Yes, it's true......those last borns, especially, [male or female] are quite popular with the opposite sex. They are fun, risk takers, spontaneous, love adventure, happy-go-lucky, free 'n easy, cocky, and usually are the life of the party. Eventually, you'll end up with one too, that is if you're a first born. Some people think first borns are too quite, shy, bookworms, and too studious. Just give yourself time, you'll eventually meet a "real live wire type of girl," [a last born, or middle born] who will appreciate you and think you're sweet and "way cool." She will make you "come alive," and change your life!

Well some girls only go for hot guys, they don't care about personality, and the ones that do are great, I mean i like hot guys, but if they're jerks it's not worth it. I like nice guys, ad it is all in the personality of the girls to decide what type of personality they like from guys.