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Cute Guy in Office Building...?
Okay so I see this total cutie randomly in my office building (it's huge), so when I run into him I really don't know hwat to say. I am single but who the heck knows if he is. I want to chat but I have never been so scared of doing something so simple. I am not ugly I can get men, but whenever I see him he is with a group of guys so its hard for me to approach him you know?
My Question is HOW DO I TALK WITH THIS GUY WITHOUT LOOKING LIKE A FLAKE??
My best friend is like "girl just talk with him, I have never seen you act so shy?" I can't explain it myself I just don't know lol...
Let me know your thoughts!
4 Answers
- ChrystalLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
I agree with your best friend. Just go and talk to him. The worst thing that could happen is that he'll be attached but be totally flattered that such a hottie(you) noticed him. And if he isn't attached then and he still turns you down, he's probably gay! ; ) Trust me, any guy would be lucky to have a girl break the ice with them. AND you'll also get the other guys to notice you too! What girl doesn't like to walk away and have a bunch of guys drool after you? It's a win win!! Be yourself and say hi, and it should all go smoothly.
Good luck!
PS wear a really sweet smelling perfume, that way it lingers while you walk away. He'll definitely remember you!
- 1 decade ago
ok, so lets say you go talk to him. whenever i've been anywhere and a girl approaches me, it catches me off guard. a girl that was really attractive walked up to me and introduced herself and i just did not know what to say. an attractive girl offered me a ride when i was walking down the street and i didn't know what to say. a girl bought me a beer at a club and i didn't know what to say. granted these instances were far and few between. (im not some supermodel or something) however, a girl was giving me extendedly long glances from across the bar, which gave me a chance to be prepared... i gained some confidence from my buddies (hand slap/ chest bumping brotherhood junk) took a big gulp of my johnny walker. a couple deep breaths... another gulp of j-dubs, and then i went over there and stepped up to bat. now he might be totally different so don't take my word to the grave. i just think its been engraned in me that the guy approaches the woman. when it goes vice versa, i think my brain goes into confused neanderthal brain mode.
ok so you are in a big office. it might be a problem to catch his eye and consistently give him "across the bar" glances. maybe if you catch his eye and say a simple hello and smile in a passingby, he might be asking the same questions that you are. once i notice a girl who i'm into, i go into immediate "how can i go talk to her mode" so i think if you possibly wear a nice outfit and walk by him a few extra times, he might go into "male hunter mode", but i think a nice hello works as well. even if he is with friends.
i don't know what else to tell you but if you do try to talk to him, he might be a little startled, so it might take a second chance. good luck, and know this. those three girls who did approach me did stand out in my mind, and i do wish that i could have had a second chance with them. their confidence was definitely attractive on its own.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
mm guys go through this all the time. Make the conversation light and maybe use humor =). Of course thinking of pick up lines haha isn't the best option, however just thinking how the conversation might go and interesting questions you might have which are related to him would be great.
When you see him just do it! (I mean just approach him lol), let no negative thoughts run through your head when you see him.
- 1 decade ago
Think of a good strategy, I think it would be totally unnatural if you just come to him and talk to him out of nothing. It would be good if you know where he hangs out during breaks or where he eats his lunch. Well, you can strategically place yourself near him and if you'll get to find out any of these things.