Girlfriend problem....plzz hlp!?

Help her make it and add some special ingredients when she's not looking.....

Tell her it's not her problem and she shouldn't be making it her problem. I'm sure there's someone else in his life that can bring him some damn soup, and if nothing else, I'm sure he could get it himself or place a delivery order somewhere. She obviously doesn't have any respect for you. Give her an ultimatum, cuz he shouldn't be a part of her life anymore if it makes you uncomfortable and she wants to be with you. So tell her it makes you uncomfortable and if she still chooses him over you, get rid of her! You deserve better!

That's not cool. When did they break up? It's possible she still has feelings for him and even if she doesn't, she should have more respect for yours. She should realise that this is a situation that would make you very uncomfortable and therefore not be doing it. She has some real nerve I reckon. You should try telling her how this makes you feel and if she doesn't get it, forget her. You need to be with someone who is thinking about how their actions affect their partner. It's just selfish not to.

make sure that when you get sick she'll do a lot more than just make soup for you. dont worry about the face that shes being nice to her ex, its normal. if it makes you feel very uncomfortable, then go with her when she drops it off, and offer to help out too so you're being the good boyfriend by being there for her

Let her take the man some soup dude! When she comes home, ask her for some(just do it). Then ask how the dude is. She may act unusual, if so, confront her.

The first question is did you know she was still talking to him after dating you for 2 months. And yes, I would "feel funny" about it too.

You need to set down an tell her exactly how it makes you feel, Turn the tables on her and ask her how she would feel. If she still goes then you need to break it off because you will never be able to trust her.

she may be telling the truth but still, why would a girl with a boyfriend bring soup to her ex!?.. theres just no reason for it.. i mean, its not wrong to still care for a past relationship but you dont have to show it.. simple actions lead to bigger things..you should have a talk with her and tell her that although you understand her intentions, youre just not comfortable with it.. she should understand..

feelin funny.......u should have told her azz something about...let her know you r don't feel good about that....... people can say o wheres the trust......you can trust a person but don't be stupid....it's her x....pot of soup....then it will be sex on the weekend..pleaseif she really need to go i would have went with her...but then again if i were you she wouldn't be going...piont blank

I would find it kind of odd that she's doing this for her ex.Wouldn't that be his new girlfriend or mom's job.She should be cooking for you,not him.Are you sure she's not seeing him on the side?You need to talk to her about this,and tell her how it makes you feel.

dont make any assumptions with her. i mean give her the benefit of the doubt... dont jump to the conclusion that she is going to have sex with him. girls have a history of remaining close to ex's because they become friends as well as dating. she could just be trying to be a good friend and bring him soup.

id suggest going with her. you dont have to go inside if you arent comfortable, but bring her there or something.