ok well I am a virgin and..?

enjoyable for HIM?

HIM?

funny. I don't think HE is the one thats going to feel like he's just been stabbed in the stomach with a red hot poker.

Him?

You really need to decide if this is what you want to do. have you thought/talked about what would happen if you got pregnent? if he's been sexually active before.. has he been tested?

in short if YOU are not ready to terminate a pregency or have a baby.. you should not be having sex.

You should be asking how you can make it more enjoyable for yourself! At 24, he is likely an automaton and will find satisfaction in just putting it in! Most women's first time experiences are awful.

Congrats on waiting this long. I hope you are really ready to give this up, because you can't take it back. I wish I had waited.

You have to want to do it. That will make the experience more enjoyable for the both of you. Problem is men are always ready. Not so with women. Work on some signal that will let him know you are ready. Repeat as necessary to receive maximum pleasure for the both of you.

First of all, you need to ask yourself if YOU are ready to have sex. It's great that you want to make the experience enjoyable for him, but if it should be enjoyable for you as well. And if you're not ready to take it to that level, then it won't be.

I think the fact that he has waited for 4 years speaks volumes. You don't have to do anything crazy in bed for him to enjoy it. He is going to have a wonderful time no matter what because he finally gets to make love to the woman he loves. Just relax and don't worry about doing anything "special". It will be special because it is with him. Good luck.

Do you want to have sex? If you do then just let the moment take over. If you don't then you need to have an alternative (perhaps oral). Just because he planned a nice evening doesn't mean you must give him sex.

Be yourself. If he knows your a virgin then he will know that your a little less experienced and he will take his times...and because he loves you. Be you and have fun with sex. It feels great, especially with the one you love! Have fun, and let your hair down, you have no worries

read on it. I wish I had read a good book before doing "it" for the first time. It was so awkward. knowledge is your best friend in most cases.

and congrats on waiting so long. I trully wish I had been in a serious relationship my first time. it might had been more special. we did stay together for 4 years but we were both kids really.

You know I can answer any other question but this one, i and a virgin to so i really can't help you. But i have been told that if you let him do you the way he likes he will enjoy all night.

first of all, make sure you really want to do this... it doesn't seem as if you're too sure about it.

second of all, just let yourself go, have fun and that will make him have fun