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How long do u think it takes to fall in love with the person you are dating? Experienced answers are welcome..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Love is the most spectacular,indescribable , deep euphoric feeling for someone.

    Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love, you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.

    This love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust the other with your life and when you would do anything for each other. When you love someone you want nothing more than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes because that's how much you care about them and because their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of yourself and can tell the other anything because you know they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.

    It's when they're the last thing you think about before you go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when you're thinking about them and miss them.

    Love can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate. Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when you're in love. If you find it, don't let it go.

    Most people use the word "love" to get into someone else's pants. Love is overused in today's world, people say they love someone because of the way they look or their body. That isn't love. Love is when you can't do anything without thinking about that person, you always want to be with them. It's not that you want to have sex with them, you just want to spend time with them and you just want to hold them and never let go. Love can be fooling, you can think you're in love and it can lead to the most horrible feeling in the world. Also you can wait so long for someone, loving them, and waiting for them to love you back, but they don't return it for a long time and you spend years thinking and thinking and it tears you up inside but when that person realizes that they love you back it's miraculous. Love is a very strong word, don't overuse it.

  • Ellie
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    A very long time- what you feel for the first 18 months is lust and infatuation. Only when you spend a lot of time living with a person can you really begin to see how you are falling in love with them. Its the things they do and need and the things you do and need and how he responds to you. How you feel apart from each other. Love is a funny old thing and often gets mistaken for infactuation. It takes a long time to realise that this is really love.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    properly you could take small steps like hugging possibly once you adult males are strolling carry her hand while shes no longer relatively paying interest provide her a splash rub on the back and tell her how beautiful you think of she is purchase her some plant existence asserting which you like her some situations you gotta only decide for it get her a splash under the impact of alcohol and supply her a kiss and in the adventure that your rejected the least which will happen is shell say no yet im confident you adult males will nonetheless be friends after which you will think of roughly what you rather need through fact in case you adult males do get right into a severe courting and issues flow bitter and additionally you adult males wreck up you maximum possibly wont be friends after that or as good of friends as you at the instant are

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It depends on the people and chemistry.... I fell in love with a girl in 3 months but it takes time to and different stages. Im still very much in love and it grows stronger every day. It is all about learning about each other emotionally, sexually and personally. You both need to want the same thing and be able to compomise!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No hard and fast rules. The vast majority of times you never will. You may grow really fond of someone, but love is a completely different thing.

    You may eventually fall in love at first sight, or even fall in love with someone you haven't seen, as love is as much if not more mental and emotional as physical in it's nature.

    Do not confuse like with love as a lot of people do.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Love happens when it wants too, there is no expected date or mark you need to reach.

    But to test what love is, set some boundaries. For example, no sex for...how long you want, then see if he respects those. After all, one of the traits of love is patience. But that's just a suggestion.

    Also, see how much trust he has for you and how much trust you have for him.

    But one thing I do know, when you love someone. Their health and happiness are your main concerns. You tend to see all the good qualities even if they are just as many bad qualities as they are good. You are likely to defend them amongst your friends and family.

    And it happens in a blink of an eye. No time limit. No set date.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Depends some fall in love day one others it takes a year

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you don't love the person already, it doesn't look all that good. Have you actually asked yourself why you are together in the first place? I personally would never embark on a relationship with someone unless I had definite feelings for her before asking her out. If you don't have any feelings for them, maybe you shouldn't really be together. Perhaps just see what happens; if it fizzles out, so be it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I've seen and experienced it to be somewhere between 2 weeks and 6 months. The best dating advice I can give someone though is to not move too fast and cut bait early when certain signs are seen.

  • 1 decade ago

    it will really depend on the people involved. some people know within a couple dates how they really feel and others may take a bit longer. if you are dating someone for a month or so and don't know how you really feel then i would say there is no hope for love, maybe friends but not love.

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