i really love this girl but she cant tell her parents?

oh pradeep wat can i even say it almost feels like reading my life abt watever u wrote every little thing that u wrote here is wat has been happening to me too. even i had a bad relation n now got the right guy but....... my parents r the biggest problem, his parents dont mind me.... but as usual its the caste prob in my house too,but......... iam doing something else which i dont want u n the girl to do----- iam getting married to someone else.

But plzzzzzzzzz u guys dont leave your strory half way thru like me n my guy, i knw these parents would never get out of this caste problem n stuff they r very particular abt it. I knw such parents pschology n i dont think its advisible for the girl to talk to her parents they might jail her at home n stuff n it might get even tougher for the both u of then, i dont knw if i could tell u this ... but y dont u ask your parents to talk to the girls parents since your parents dont mind abt it ......... i think that sounds more matured n then if things dont work out then your parents itself should talk to the girl n convince her..... not that u cant do it but when your parents r also involved in this..... it shows how serious u r with going ahead with this,come wat may in between u n your girl.

the reason y iam getting married to someone else is just to hold the respect that i have towards my parents n thats a mutual decision between my guy n me(v both have equal respect towards my parents n they r more complicated family issues if i go ahead with my guy so....... iam sacrificing........ but iam happy coz iam doing it for the guy i love the most...... so no regrets at all....) anywayz my story aside.... but i hope u got the ans to your question n hope i was of atleast some help to u n plzzzz dont give up n try convincing your girl n most imp her parents not the girl.... with your parents too in the picture... thats more imp.

All the best Pradeep!!! everything wil go gud dont worry so much n the most imp thing in such situations is to have loads of courage n plz dont loose hope, try try try n u wil suceed some day.Wishing u all the luck u need.Cheers!!!

Well, they are idiots. Firstly religion and politics/law are supposed to be two seperate institutions. Secondly more gay and lesbian (especially lesbian) couples stay together then straight couples, when 2 out of 3 first marriages, and 1 out of 3 second marriages break up you'd hardly call that a healthy stable environment. I could argue you should want gay children since it makes the odds of successful relationships rise, LOL. I've been in foster care, it is NOT a loving environment, I had one loving caring foster family all the other ones were screw ups doing it for money, i just don't like it. The government and the people need to wake up and realize that their own stupid prejudices based on books that were written thousands of years ago, that were miss-translated and offer no insight into 21 Century life are destroying lives! Whether those lives be gay people or children alike.

Well, if she loves you then she will eventually except your proposal. Dont push her or preasure her cause you'll lose her, ok

if you love her this much then you'll respect her wishes and she feel more comfortable. Maybe shes just wanting to wait till her father is having a good day

and i know what your thinking

it gonna be forever, but think of it this way at least shes still with you right know and not running off

Just let her know that you respect her wishes and she love you for it.

Also you could take her dad out acouple of times and get to know him as well as he'll get to know you, and maybe she come around sooner with the news

Love is always hard when it comes to in-laws but this is expected, ok?Just dont push her, she aint going anywhere sweety

it really stinks when your relationship is hidden.

It makes it feel fake. I have a common issue

and i'm just ready to bail, there are too many

fish in the sea to bother with this kind of drama.

Parent's should not rule thier childrens love

lives either. To be a true man/woman u need

to say .. i love this person and i don't care/

i am really happy for you both that at last you found yourselves good and true lovers. God bless you both. also makes me sad about your past as me too gone through all this ****.

now about your problem all i can say is that you need to talk with your gf and explain to her and encourage her to speak with her parents and if she does not have enough guts then its time that you should get up and do the talking with her parents

best wishes mate and hope you both live a happy married life thereafter............

Think again.

May be because of same story in the both ends in the past you may be more interested in this kind of affair.

If you could make to your food and the girl is confident on you ,carry on.

Do not be hypo crate on love. Be practical. If you are in love gain the courage and tell her parents directly. Or Forget, get another one.