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Do I have a boyfriend?

So I've been waiting on this guy to ask me out for TWO months.. and just recently e started talking to me quite often. I've been very excited.

Anyways, I went to his house tonight and he said "I'm really nervous.. and I don't know how to do this thing anymore. I don't know if I'm supposed to say... _______ will you be my girlfriend or what.. So will you go out with me... on a date on Friday.."

So I said yes, and I asked my mom if that meant we were together.. and she said being together is in high school and after high school you just date, then eventually marry someone.

Is there anyway to tell if I have a boyfriend or not, or will I find out after the date... or is my mom right. Do you stop having "boyfriends" after high school??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No, you don't stop having boyfriends after school, but honney, he's not truely your "boyfriend" right now. You are just going out on a date, trying things out. Nothing serious. Now if you begin to like him, keep going out on dates, and eventually it will just melt it, and you two will become a couple. But you are young I'm taking it. Right now you are in a puppy mode. Youa re excited a male is giving you attention and possibly has feelings for you. Don't allow that to hide your true feelings. Do you like him (Not love, you will not know love until much later in life) or do you just want his attention. That is a hard question to figure out. But don't take this date to heart, just try it out.

  • 1 decade ago

    you don't stop having boyfriends after high school ..i think you actually have more in collage.As far as your problem its most likely that you do ..If the date on Friday goes well. Listen to your heart and everything will work out. Mom's are people too and remember they were born in a different generation and they make mistakes.

    -Good luck :)

    - Best of luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    That's not true. A boyfriend or girlfriend is someone you date a lot and you have a connection with.

  • 1 decade ago

    No, you still have boyfriends after high school. I'm 31 and I have a boyfriend...

    hope that helps,.

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  • 1 decade ago

    your mom is silly. i say just ask him. talk to him. communication and trust are the bases of every relationship!

    Source(s): personal experience
  • 1 decade ago

    if you r not m'rried & u r d'ting then th'ts your boyfriend. Your m'mmy is wrong.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    things are supposed to just happen

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