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I need help i dont get this?

Everyone ignored me in Middle School now everyone thinks im so cool just because im polite but ive always been polite. It gets worse now everyone thought i was cool but noone like ever hit on me gave me any signs or anything. I am dating someone now and suddenly everyone is against it and is like you can do so much better and im like im not shallow she was nice to me even when we first met unlike most of them. She is my opposite though im I mean i am popular and polite and i talk to much she is beutiful, and well she is different ok, but thats what i like in her. She doesnt want to be popular and i like it a little i tell her if she gives it a chance shell like it she said she would leave me if i made her popular but anyone i go around becomes popular. I dont no y i dress in a way just to get everyone to stop liking me so much it doesnt work they just copy me. Like my haircut i got picked on it for years now its cool i mean should i tell ppl to get a life & leve me alone u cn im me ok

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Hey cooleo ty so much your advice really helped

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  • 1 decade ago
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    there must be a reason why suddenly people who used to pick on you now think you are cool. If you are being the same as you were before, then they should have always seen that you are a good person. I'm not saying that you're not a cool person, I just think something's up. Anyway...what does "popular" actually mean, you know? It means different things to everyone. In my eyes, it means you have a lot of friends. But if all of those "friends" are just using you to get what they want, then what's the use of being popular. The girl you are dating seems like the right person for you. Who cares what other people think as long as you are happy. Stick with the people you hung out with before you were deemed "popular". You will be much better off hanging out with people who like you for just being yourself. Good luck with everything and I hope this advice helped! :)

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