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Wich one of these two guys should i date ? ( Pics inside )?

still dont know

again but now please pick one, no jokes and "neither one"

they both ask me out...The first one :

He is beatifull,he is latin and very kind and i actually like him very much

http://i185.photobucket.com/albums/x153/Stefania18...

the second :

he is okay, not that good looking but i like him very much too and hes very macho ( but he is kinda gansta and i hate that),

http://i185.photobucket.com/albums/x153/Stefania18...

wich one is better good looking?

i really dont know what to do , please...!

The first one is romantic ( i like that , he makes me feel special and is very sensitive, he's about my age, he is my highschool,he's very popular and get along well with futboll players,nerds,cheerleaders,etc.. )

The second one is macho ( i like that too, he makes me feel safe cuz he is strong and 2 years older than me, the "bad guy" and i think he wont go to college and he wants to be a musician)

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    how could u do this stephanie? I asked u out and you be advertising me like this. what the ****, i am so pissed. i can't believe this ****. how u gonna do that to me? and making pple choose between me and him, why u can't choose urself wtf.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    the first 1

  • Chris
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    To me the first one. The reason that you are liking the second one is that he makes you feel safe. The first one, treats you like you want to be treated and is kind. I mean with time the first one can become somewhat macho, and there are unknown strengths within a dude when his girl is being harmed...trust me. I would say based on all of the things that you have given us the first one seems like the better choice.

  • You shouldn't date someone based solely on their looks. However, from what you described I would go with the one who makes you feel like you are special. He sounds like a very sweet person. The second one doesn't seem as stable and I could potentially see problems in your future if you do decide to date him. However, I'm just stating my opinion by the info that you gave. Only you know what's really best for you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You don't know these guys and you have to be less mercenary when it comes to chosing a guy to be with. If they don't just dump you, get to know them better.

    My first impression is the first guy might be closer to you in a relationship than the second guy. If he gets an advanced education he may have a more comfortable life later.

    The second guy seems more concerned with status and image and may pay less attention to you (Maybe). You have to ask him what you mean to him to get a better idea. Does he have musical talent to make him a successful musician? He could be great and he may be a beautiful human being.

    You will want a life with a guy that loves you more than himself and you will want peace not drama.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hi! I think you should go for the guy that you feel good with. It doesn't matter whats on the outside or how he looks, it matters what's on the inside and who will you give you full attention and love you. It's not my decision, its's yours. That is great if he is romantic, it is also great that the other one is strong and wants to be a musician. There not bad people. They are both cute but go for the guy that you will feel protected with and the one that will feel protected with you. Bye and I hope my advice helped! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm not going to look at pictures.

    From the descriptions, the romantic one who makes you feel special is better.

    But it might help to know that my experience is that some women are more susceptible to men who relax them, and others respond to men who excite them. You sound like you have one of each.

    You're not planning on marrying either one of them, you're headed for college yourself, so don't make any heavy commitments. There may be someone else much more suitable for you around the corner.

  • 1 decade ago

    The first one def...sounds like a keeper

    not num 2 nono stay away lol bad boys are bad

    stay awayyy lolo good luck hun

  • 1 decade ago

    Go with the first guy, he's much better, the macho man is sketchy, so date the first guy, and if it doesnt end well, ask out the second guy, that way you arent missin out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Definetly #1. I know the bad guys are tempting, but dont waste your times. Everything you said about #1 was very positive.

  • 1 decade ago

    First one. Better looking and more likely to support you in the future.

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