Is this love?Please i need some advice im really confused!!!?

could be, or just an infatuation. have you been intimate?

It's funny because it is like a situation with me but it will never work because the steps that has tainted the past and plus the aggravated feelings that are still there and will not go away automatically especially if he does something and the past pops back up again........hmmmm girl I say let it go lol!!!! You will find out that you will be a stronger better person than with him so let it go it is the past for a reason and ask yourself if you learned the lesson that was meant to be learned from it and if not why are you repeating it? It is a new year new season claim what is within your blessings and keep it moving forward!!! Good luck!!!!

It sounds like live but........it seems as if there are issues you two need to work out. See it is perfectly possible to love someone but not be able to work out any of the issues you each have. You can love someone but not be able to live with them also.

So if you two can not work out the problems you obviously have(since you keep saying goodbye) you need to think about whether its worth it to keep trying. Or get some counseling- a pastor, or psychologist.

It sounds like love to me but make sure it isn't just the romance of the situation you crave and the attention from him and because you are comfortable with him..why do you have to keep saying good bye to him or forget him ??..he is in a relationship or are you? why can you not just try and make a go of it? i think there must be a reason and until you resolve that then you will never know if he is the one for you regardless if you love him or not.

You might be in love just sit back and watch if he feel the same way about you. Some time we get in a relationship and we are there all by our self. If it is real love it will with stand the test of time so be careful and just try and get real with yourself before you try to enter back into a relationship with this guy.

Why do you keep saying good-bye? Is it a case of " Can`t live with him" / "Can`t live without him" ? I`d say yes you are in love with him. Is he married already, is that the problem? Only you can deal with that one, but if that isn`t the case, then what ARE you waiting for? Go get him lady !!!!!

Well I think the problem is that you keep opening yourself to him time after time. When you decide to close that part of yourself to him, you will leave him alone but if you keep going down that road and not letting go he will come back into your life and your mind continuously.

Too bad!

"couse if both of you don't stay together or either apart, it sounds to me that you both don't know what you want, or at least the way you want.

You should by now, know at least if is it worth to go back and forth.

If it is what you expect from your future, go ahead.

It's what you'll get.

it could be

that happen to me but we had two children and married but it ended in up in divorce court

not saying this will happen to you but make sure you both want the same thing out of life

If it was love, I doubt that you'd keep splitting up in the first place but only you know how you feel.

That's sweet.

Just hang out with him and get to know each other more. Take this slow, what ever should happen will happen.