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why do ex's always come back?

I have come to the realization that every guy i have ever dated has come back and tried to get back with me. Some i have gotten back with, then broke it off. It hasnt ever been an issue, most of the guys back off after i tell them no. Is it just me this happens to? It never bothered me untill now.

Update:

i am starting a new relationship, and i have had two of my exs try to get back with me in the past week, i really dont want it to hurt my future with my new relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Because they realize that the grass wasn't greener on the other side. If this happens 2 u a lot-give urself a pat on the back-ur a good gf.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It is because they always think they are missing some fun when they are just with one girl. Sadly, one of these guys that broke up with you may be Mr. Right. He will never be that guy but he will spend the rest of his life knowing it. Continue to tell them no. You don't need a cheater or a guy that will follow the next girl with long blonde hair. Right?

  • 1 decade ago

    It's just that they might have thought they would find better but when they didn't they want to come back. But I think that if it didn't work the 1st time, why would it work on the next try.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well I can't really say because I don't know you maybe you are irisistable jk but I truthfuly can't answer this question sorry : (

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It happened to me... My ex kept talking to me time and time again even though she was the one who dumped me. I plainly told her that I'm going to continue keeping my distance from her. I did that for my gf's sake.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just to bloody well torture us! That is why the SOB's come back!

    Mine went so far as to figure that if he couldn't have me....he'd take my sister and do to her what he did to me!

    The sick $(*%(^*$)#* SOB!

    So, that is why they come back...torture...plain & simple.

    Hugs n blessings

  • 1 decade ago

    because they dont realize what they lost till it is gone..

  • 1 decade ago

    what goes around comes around.

  • 1 decade ago

    They always want what they can't have.

  • 1 decade ago

    guys, they can never get enough of us

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