why do men seem interested in a woman then stand them up on a first date?

Well, I'm no love expert here, but do these men really find you attractive then? I have never stood up a women that I was really into and come to think of it I've never really stood a woman up. Questions you need to ask: Who brought up the idea of the date in the first place? Did he seem interested when we talked about seeing me? Does it seem like he is coherent enough to understand what a date is?

I don't know what to tell you as I would pretty much guarantee most guys as a whole don't stand their dates up.

I chased after a girl who played hard to get for awhile and finally stopped. Funny thing was, after I stopped, she came crawling to me...but I'd found someone else to turn my attentions on.

When you say they back out when it comes to the real deal, what does that mean? What exactly are you talking about? Are you looking for a new husband?

They are afraid the woman is more dominate in this category. They don't know haw to handle it so they back out. Give the guy some power, and let him take control.

Yeah, men are jerks.

I'm a man, I see it. I really don't know how you women stand it, or why you'd want us!

guess they get scared about the care and committment you express towards them.i think they are not in for a serious relstionship with you.just have patience ur time will come.

Maybe they saw you and vamoosed.

I do not know you, so do not take this as a personal attack, but beautiful women do not have any trouble getting dates, even the crazy ones.

i have the same exact problems. or we will meet once and then they will never want to hang again even though they will act interested just not to my face, but through aim, text, or phone sometimes. its ridiculous.

They either forget or something comes up. Count your blessings you learn this early on.. dont count your frustrations. At least you wont be seeing him again.

your meeting the wrong men. at least your finding it out soon. what if you were involved and then they showed their real colors.

good luck