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How To Break Boyfriends Habits??

Everytime my boyfriend gets mad and I refuse to back down to him, then he always wants to break up....He then gets real ugly and mean and says things that should not be said to one another.....he always apologizes afterwards and says he will try harder, which he is getting better....I need help, will this ever end or should I cut my losses??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You can't change people..it really depends on how much they are willinging to change themselves..

    If he's getting better at it,I think you should stick around and see what happens.Sounds like he has the potential to change.

    However..I think you should find out how he truly feels for you..always wanting to break up after an argument says that he isn't really sure about you.(sorrry if thats too harsh)

    If things get too out of hand for you,I think you should consider breaking it off.

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  • 1 decade ago

    The operative word is boyfriend. This is a boy who hasn't matured into a man. Real men do not verbally abuse women. Some stay as boys all their life. Do yourself a favor early in life and find a real man. They are out there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dating is when we put our best foot forward. What do YOU think will happen if you stay with this guy? Yelling in anger is only a short step from violence. You're not going to change him by staying. Don't allow this to become a pattern in your life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he's making improvements that's good. And if you think he will eventually stop then go for it. But it seems more of an anger management issue than anything else, which is pretty hard to change.

    If it were me, I wouldn't put up with it. But I don't think I'd date any one who yells or swears at me.

  • 1 decade ago

    You can never change people. You can only change how you deal with them. One viable option is to walk away. In your case, yes, I would cut my losses.

  • 1 decade ago

    you were not for each other or he is just immature.Tell him that politely that you hate him when he behaves in this manner. Of course this should be your last chance for him if he doesn't change!

    what he may do next time will be worse than now.Either learn to adapt or quit.

  • elurle
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You can't change someone. Sorry but at some point this must have been ok with you. And frankly it isn't fair or rational to expect him to change. If it's no longer ok with you stop complaining and get out.

  • KORIN
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It never end. They change for a minute but as soon as they get back to a comfort level they will be the same. Trust me.

  • 1 decade ago

    Leave him. This will show him that he needs to change or you will find someone that is better for you.

    If he doesn't come back, he wasn't' worth your time anyways.

    After leaving him, I give him a WEEK tops to be begging you back.

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