my husband and i got in to a fight . after i had said we were over . he went?

Even if he was legally separated from you, living in another home and everything....he's still married and in the eyes of the court, he is committin adultry.

Did you know that cyber-sex/hot chat, cam 2 cam and porno (both cyber and paper) in some states is considered adultery?

Well first of all what was the fight about, and what happened??? It sounds like something serious happenend otherwise you wouldn't have said that you two were over. I think that in an argument we say things sometimes that we don't mean to, or out of anger we say them, afterwards we generally wish we could take them back, but unfortunately we can't. I would sit down and talk to him, communication is the best way to know what is going on with your husband/wife. No one else knows what is going on in his mind, or his thoughts. So talk to him, ask him how he feels, what he needs/ wants, and you state yours as well. I have learned that once you talk and see what the other's needs/wants are, and they know yours, then you have a better, healthier relationship, because you can tell your partner anything. Good Luck!

I think it was over long before you said so, and good riddance. Now get on with life, and wait to find guys who will treat you with respect. If you don't know what that looks like (and that is quite possible if your family of origin was less than wonderful), you may want to get some counseling. Some churches offer that for free, and there are many counselors that charge on a sliding scale according to how much you can afford. Once you know what being treated with respect is and what to look for, you will run a better chance of meeting nice guys, not idiots.

Did you see him online with the other girl or is he just saying that because he is mad it all depends how his been acting lately we women know when something is going on. And ill tell you something my husband and I had a few arguments and big fights and in one of those i told him that it was over i got so pissed at him but i didnt mean too but i did say what i said and he said no its not over and he kept telling that our marrige is until death do us part but sometimes he does say stupid stuff but i know he says it because his mad and then he changes. Well hope you guys work things out at least talk about it before making a decision.

Sounds like he is very spitefull! Some husbands can be so stupid........I would go on the same site and let everyone on there know that you have "Free Husband delivery included "and give them all his cell phone number!! Good luck sweetie.

That is cheating, and he sounds like a jerk, and very insecure, insecure men are cheaters, because they dont have any self confidence, they get power out of cheating, to try and make themselves feel good, because they dont feel good about themselves, you are worthy of a good relationship, he sounds like he isnt to good.

You said it was over. So now he is single in his mind.

Or he did it to get you to ask this question.

he doesn't waste anytime... He may be just acting out of fustration but be careful, keep an eye on him.

Well your the one that said it was over and if its that easy for you to say that then its that easy for him to say hes single

i believe he was just upset about what you said and was just saying that to get a rection out of you......he probably didn't mean it just like you didn't