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How can I become more open?

I seem like a very quiet person until you get to know me, then I 'm not quiet at all. I get embarrassed really easily so I'm always afraid to do things. How can I become more open?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Being open is all about confidence , take some classes or join a group about something you enjoy . Talking about something you're interested in and knowing something about it will inspire the openness you're after.

  • 1 decade ago

    I AM THE SAME WAY !!!!

    I do NOT jump into conversations, and keep to myself until someone makes the initiative.

    The truth is.... the way we are ISN'T bad, but we are afraid. Sounds like you need to do what i did.... at work (if you work) you are in a team. Try to get some personal information and relate to it.

    Or if this is elsewhere find something you have in common and work it from there. Usually one thing in common leads to many, many other things you like with others.

    Things will become easier every time you exercise this method. Before you know it, you won't even know you are doing it! =)

    also what you just did was the first step..... you realize, admit and now you are ready to conquer this.

    GOOD LUCK....

  • I kind of had the same problem. You just have to begin by trying something that only scares you a little, and work your way up. Or, if you are daring, try something that scares you a BUNCH and do it. Then, everything else doesn't seem so bad. (The latter was what I did.)

    Same with being more open. Try telling something you haven't told many, but isn't embarrassing, to one person and work your way from there.

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    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Do everything you would normally do at home. That's being human, and people respond to it. Just remember that some people mistake shyness for aloofness.

  • 1 decade ago

    start conversations and stuff, if your looking for guys, guys will come to you, and if your looking for friends, throw a party and make plans

    have a nice summa

  • 1 decade ago

    just think that your past hase been forgotten,and new man is new world,

  • 1 decade ago

    that just the way iam

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just be urself and never forget who u are!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    um...to become friends with way more people???

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