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Is this wrong? Please Help me...?

My best friend in the world is gay. I love him more than anything and we share everything with each other...

We are very..... meaningful and touchy with each other all of the time and I know that he makes out with girls for fun even though he is gay.

I have had the temptation to kiss him many times and I have had many oppertunities.

I don't want anything serious like a relationship with him because after all he is gay, but for some reason I really just want to make out with him.

Would that be wrong and do you think it would make him angry or make things weird?

Also, he is moving away to college in one month and I think I would regret it if I didn't take the chance..

Please help me.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    well.... you can TRY.... if you really want to, go for it, but it's a big decision... if you feel like it's risky or something inside is telling you not to do it, then dont. Listen to what your cautious side is saying. In my opinion, now I'm learning that logic is more important than emotion/heart. So many times i never listened to what was telling me it's wrong , i went for my tempetation. Then i was in total regert. U know what i mean? or you can ask him if you want. He might say yes or he might say no. If he says no, at least you'll know for sure that he doesn't want to be kissed. It's kinda weird though.. why does he kiss random girls but never kissed you, his best friend? I was thinking maybe inside he has a secret crush on you but you mentioned that he's gay. Anyways... if you feel like your friendship will be uncomfortable after you kiss him, then don't. Good luck.. try to make the best decision! it's really up to you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ok i know what you are going through. i too have a gay best friend and he likes to make out with girls. although i have not had a temptation to kiss him my other girl best friend has. she says she is going to bc she dont wnat to miss it and keep wondering what would happen.

    soooo my advise is go for it. and tell him that you just want to be friends but make out.

    im shure he will understand.

  • 1 decade ago

    i also have a gay friend and he has told me that things like that would weird him out so i just would be his friend and keep things friendly , because it might be that you know he is gay and that turns you on its like having something you can not have it makes you want it that much more just be friends

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  • well i think its understand able that you like him a lot. i been there. just tell your self that being friends with him would help him out more then a relationship.

    try to help him threw his ways there are other guys out there

  • 1 decade ago

    does him being gay a problem?

    just do what (wow i was going to say : do what tastes right) your heart wants you to do. :-)

  • 1 decade ago

    ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. thats kinda wierd, but if u like him that much go for it! good luck! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do what you feel is right!

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