Am I wrong to b angry over his women pals as he talks to & helps them & lies to me is it Emotional Cheating?

he cheating on you you and you should be jeaules

you have all the right to be angry... chatting is not a crime for it to be hidden... if it was being lied to you then something is not right... talked to him, tell to him what your feeling about him talking/flirting to other women... that you love him still but you cannot stay with the relationship because the trust and respect is already or starting to loose... after that you talked and if you think you can still stay for a while into the relationship to look if something change to him, then give him a chance... but if your feeling that the trust and respect cannot be re-build again then give him up... before it get worsen and even the little respect that you leave to yourself, gone...

well i am gonna be blunt about this , if he has gal pals and u dont have a problem with it then he should allow you to see their conversations , but im diff , i have a gf and neither of us chat online with others anymore , in the rooms we hang out in we do it togather and as we call em nasty boxes are more private than a corner booth in a bar room , you just never know what is being said there , this one is all on you , you either accept it or put an end to it , who is more important to him , you , or them

I'm sorry to say, but this isn't love at ALL. Because 1 of the main things love is based on is trust, so if you can't trust him its not worth making yourself miserable over. And if it was truely love then there would be nothing to hide, but to me it sounds like he's hiding everything from you. So my advice is to move on even though it may be difficult, because there is someone out there who will love you enough to not hide things from you.

Get rid of him!!! He shouldn't need to talk to other females that often, that should be your role in his life. If he chatting with these women then whats stopping him from seeing them, not all of them are in other countries. If there is no trust in a relationship then there is no relationship. The are plenty of men that are willing to focus all of their attention on one woman and I recommend that you find one of those men!!

I do not know why you are still with him. He is totally cheating on you and it does not sound like he loves you. I think you need to leave him and do not give him a second chance. I think it also sounds like he may be a bit emotionally abusive. It sounds like he is willing to physically cheat on you if he has not done so already.

Yes it's wrong and disrespectful to you and your feelings.

Find a guy who treats you right so that a year from now you aren't saying, "I've been dating a guy for 5 years and..."

ummm get out now. no matter what you dont deserve that its not love and its only breaking you down. youve been together 4 yrs and he tells you its not your business....ok make it not your business. pack up and bounce. you wont regret it it.

he doesn't care about your feeling and he doen't deserve you. Ditch him!!!