im a lesbian :My brother doesnt like my girlfriend.Ok here is the deal, i been with this girl for 10months now

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well at the beggining it was mostly me and her and our friends. But toward like umm the middle of our relationship my brother started dating her Best friend. well it thought this is cool you know, maybe we can all go on double dates and stuff, well ya sure enough in the we all got closer. we would all spend the night at my girls house and go out clubbing and stuff. but my brother started telling me that my gf has attitude problems. like shes bossy and always wants it her way, but he says that shes not like that when im around. well he wants me to agree with him but since im never around when she does it i dont see it. But ya i have to agree she is a bossy sometimes , but when i see it i tell her right away " hey calm down dude ur acting stupid" or " relax your being rude ".now me and my brother fight becuz of her,And she feels as if shes gona lose me becuz my brother doesnt like her, what do i do? i feel as if im trapped ...help,she said shes willing to change, but he dislikes her now

pjonkml · Accepted Answer

Well...it's you who's dating this girl, so it's your decision.  If you've noticed it a little, it's probably true that she's bossy.  Sit them down and talk to the two of them.  If she can agree to calm down, and he can try to be more patient, it should be fine.  Your brother may be trying to protect you from a controlling relationship.  Because if she's bossy now, she may start to try to boss you around, and no one wants that.  So, have a talk with them, and see if things can change.

Ann S · Answer

In my opinion, this is really between your gf and your brother. I would tell them not to put me in the middle. If they can not behave properly around one another or work to resolve this. Then it would be best if they stayed away from one another. They need to talk to you about other things.

qaz · Answer

if you do not dislike her then what is a good reason to break up with her; because your brother don't like her. well he is not dating her, you are. do she have a problem with him. you should probably get them together and let them talk out their problem to see what is really going on.

HoodTookMeUnda · Answer

Well if she's willing to change her attitude, what's the problem?

Don't worry about your brother he'll get over it when she changes her attitude.

samhillesq · Answer

Don't let your brothers opinion bother you, if he doesn't like her tell him to stay away from her, period! Sounds like he is the one with the problem.

TRACER ™ · Answer

Try spending more time with the three of you together.  The more time they are togehter the better the chances are of them becoming friends.  Good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

kick her in the vaginas

Anonymous · Answer

talk to him and... well its ur life...

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