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Ladies: Nothing is wrong? Really?
I'm just wondering why sometimes my girl will be very obviously upset about something, but when I ask her all she says is "Nothing is wrong". I can't remember doing anything wrong and yet I can see she is clearly ticked off.
Why do ladies do this? Why not just vent about whatever is bothering you?
8 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I'm a woman. I don't do that. Neither does my mother or one of my sisters. But every other woman I know does.
I right here and now apologize for my sex, I know this drives men crazy and it is inexcusable. I wish I could explain it, but I am female and I don't even know why so many women do this. It would drive me nuts too.
Do you know how many stand up comedians use this "female phenomenon" in their routines????
That is why I LOVE men! Men are so honest. They just say what is on their mind. No mind games.
- 1 decade ago
Ha ha I do that but looking at it from outside the box I don't know why. It is mostly because it's so obvious and he's actually asking. Are you kidding me, I could have just hinted ten times at what I'm mad about and he's asking?! I just do it because he's so clueless it infuriates me that he has the nerve to ask. Your situation seems less obvious, it seems like she isn't the type to get mad if you don't figure it out right then?? so it's best to wait and then later when she might actually tell you ask her what was bothering her and be genuine about it you really have to seem like you deeply care and are interested in helping her feel better. Wow I realize this is a complicated process but that is just how I'm wired. This would probably crack me open. Just make sure to be really sweet about it not annoyed:)
- 1 decade ago
Some girls just cant bring themselves up to talk about there problems. I dont know why, but girls say its not tht big a deal, or they just dont want to talk about it to anyone(pus, we are really bad at hiding our feelings) Your girl should be able to tell you whats wrong with her, even if it has nothing to do with you. She should have some trust, so just ask her straight up what is wrong. And if she doesnt tell you, your gonna have to wait a little, she may come out about it later on. Good Luck!
- 1 decade ago
Maybe I'm just bad at reading emotions...but sometimes my girl will look very sad out of nowhere. Maybe she isn't sad...but it looks like it to me. And I know I haven't done anything to make her sad. So I ask "What's wrong, baby?" and she says "Nothing." I still wonder though because she looks so damn sad when I ask her that.
You women are confusing.
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- 1 decade ago
Because women are retarded my friend. Your girlfriend wants you to pursue her more and try to figure out what she's upset about. She may not realize it but she is. Don't pry, but let her know you've been thinking about it and you want to help her out. Most of all, she probably wants your attention.
And don't blame yourself, chicks are whack.
Source(s): Im a girl. I have friends who are girls. You get it. - Anthony FLv 61 decade ago
Women are from Venus, remember? They just think differently from men, and we think differently from them, because we are from Mars. Most we can do is continue to love them, but don't try to understand them.
- Lin BLv 41 decade ago
because honestly sometimes we feel like it is so obvious why we are upset, and then when you ask, its like a slap in the face. in our minds we say, "omg i am really with this person who is clueless"
- Anonymous1 decade ago
cuz we women are emotional.