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What can I do after a break up?

My girlfriend and I just broke up after 4 years. We are going to be 'just' friends and see how things can go from there, which she doubts it will get anywhere. My friends barely want to do anything and I am bored out of my mind and just want something to do or hang out with... What should I do?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Come and hang out with me! ;)

    Hhaa... Seriously, start living!! Do everything you have always wanted to do but can't do when you were with her. Now is a better time than ever to start finding out who you really are..

    I have always thank my boyfriends for dumping me... because it really gives me time to find out who I really am, what I love to do as opposed to what I love to do with them.. I also found I love travelling .. on my own... the most liberating thing about it all, is that you may find you may love your own company afterall!! :)

    Have fun!! xx

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Go on a date, and tell the date that you are not looking for anything serious because you just left a 4 year relationship...try that for starters...you might just like the advice.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you are breaking up, don’t see her at least for a while. Staying as a friend while she might be looking for someone else will be hurtful for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Try your best to move on and get back into the playing field. Date!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would try to hang out with her so you can keep a friendship...but keep it mind it is hard to keep friendships after breakups.

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