If after almost 2 years your other half started seeing someone else, but asked 4 time 2 think would you wait?

Wow.

I'm sorry but are you serious? He takes off to be with someone else after being with him 2 years just because he suddenly needed time to think and your sticking around waiting for him? Did it ever occur to you that he might not be planning on coming back? That he's not just saying that to you because men will say anything to keep their options open in case one thing doesnt work out????? Do you really think that little of yourself that you dont believe you can move on just like he OBVIOUSLY has??? stop being so blind. if he really felt you were worth being with or marrying, he wouldnt need to LEAVE TOWN, and be with SOMEONE ELSE. DUH! You need to get over him because he's already doing that.

" I was and still am ready to marry this man and be together forever, but how long should I let him string me along and play with my emotions before I just say forget it and try to start over?"

girl......... get a grip.

how in world can you say you're ready to marry him if he's treating you like poo? you can't be together forever if he's in another town ditchin you for another woman.

also, why is it only up to HIM to decide if the relationship can work?

he wouldn't hurt you like he is if he loved you. he wouldn't be with someone else if he cared about you. he wouldn't let you move for him and then ditch you if he respected you. and you wouldn't be asking this question at all if you were TRULY ready to marry this man.

he's not worth it. no one is if they can treat you like that. would YOU treat HIM like that?

get to know yourself. live alone. do what you like. i GUARANTEE if you got on with your life, and could find a way to be happy with yourself, you'd have men all over your doorstep.

you can do it. really.

All I can say is get away from this man or your life is always going to be nothing but hurt, misery, and heart break. He doesn't love you if he was able to just run off with another women so easily. He doesn't respect you for a person or how you feel. Trust me I was with a man that was similiar to what yours sounds like, and he ruined me in more ways than one. But now I found someone that treats me like a queen. HE helps me with everything, and he loves me, and it is the best feeling in the world. You deserve so much better than that. You deserve to be happy to, so never settle for less than that. And take this time away to start looking for mr. right and stop chasing mr. wrong.

Baby girl- I think he is a user. Trying to keep you where you might still take him in if he falls on his face with his new girl. Hard as it may be, you shouldn't take him back. You sound like you are so in love though, you probably would. If you do, try and make a new set of rules to live by. If he doesn't come back, you were better off without him anyways.

Get out now...Do not pursue him or contact him. It will only drive him away. I know it is hard to stomach, but if he loved you he wouldn't even think about doing something along these lines. One thing I have learned is if you truly love someone there is no doubt. The hard part is the pain that comes from unreturned love, but it will pass and you will find someone if you don't let it harden your heart.

well maybe when the other woman doesnt want him anymore and he has no other person to turn to, you can have the leftovers. wake up and smell the coffee or whatever you are drinking.

If he love you he should not ask for time...he wants his cake and eat that **** too....

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