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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

love-hate relationship?

what's the reason for a love-hate relationship? why can't people seem to break free of them?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Infatuation>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>It's like a drug..

  • 1 decade ago

    This kind of relationship has 4 not 2 people in it and you'd be wise to seek a relationship therapist to work things out if

    your serious about down the road . . .

    i't a very ambiguious type of situation not bad necessaraly, sound's like a personality clash, in every realtionship there is a dominant and subordinant,

    as in the old saying, opposites attract,

    but the other 2 people i refer to is the other side of the coin of another saying, birds of a feather stick together which may be good but how do they endure while there sticking to each other, point being you 2 may be so alike that you just need to prioritize your attributes, in plain english, you need to know how not get in each other's way so you notice the positive in each other and can appreciate them, instead of dwelling on the negatives so as to be constantly boxing with each other when you should instead be dancing . . .

    good luck . . .

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it has to do with a lot of things. Sometimes it's hard to imagine what you'd do and how different things would be without that person. As much bad as there is, there's always those good moments. Sometimes they make the hard times worthwhile. It's usually our wishful thinking that someday there will only be good left. 95% of the time it doesn't turn out that way. But as sappy as it sounds, it's hard to give up on love even when it's only there half of the time.

  • 1 decade ago

    because love and hate r so close to eachother. i mean think about it, the people that you used to be closed to but now something happened and it's over, it makes you soooo mad and you start to get that hatred feeling. but if someone you don't even care about does the same thing, you are like whatever! love hate relationships SUCK! BUT, sometimes you just can't get away from it as easy as you could any other relationship....

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  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe one is too insecure to leave someone that they hate. You have to love yourself and be totally secure before you can be in a healthy relationship with others. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    they love then they hate when they hate they break then they realize they love so they make up

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It depends one the people.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think cause the more you hate the more you love thats whats it say!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Because they don't have God in their lives.

  • 1 decade ago

    cause theyre just stupid! abd cant make up their mind!

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