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Going back to your 1st Love?

Has anyone ever wanted to, or did get back with your 1st love after being apart for a long long time. I don't mean months. Was he/she the same as you remembered? or is it better left to memories? Have we all changed sooo much that we think it wouldn't work out?

Update:

This is just a general Q brought on y a Q I read just an hour ago. We all wonder about things like that sometimes. I am happily married but was just wondering if anyone actually acted on their ideas.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    no that was in the past time has moved on now i am happily married now with 3 daughters times were good back then but times are even better now

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I was with the same girl for 4 years, got back together after a year apart and it lasted a fortnight! You realise why you broke up in the first place. Yes best left to happy memories I think x

  • 1 decade ago

    After about 10 years I saw her. We talked but she seems a bit jaded and it seems like its my fault. Like everything went downhill after we split up. Our lives have gone in such different paths its like the "Butterfly Effect." I think we all grow up though, because of that I wish I didn't know how she was doing. She is no longer that sweet girl I loved so much and thought I would marry someday. In some ways its sad because I want her to be happy, but I can't be the one to do it. I have moved on and I have a family now.

  • 1 decade ago

    I met up with my 1st love last summer, we hadn't seen each other for over 10 years. He still looked good and was fun to hang out with but he didn't want it to end there - he kept calling me like 10 times a day and said he was willing to do anything to have me in his life - it was very bizarre. I just recently started talking to him again - he understands we can only be friends.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I wanted to, but circumstances didn't allow it. I had a drunken snog with him about 6 years ago. He was still married then. Now he's with someone else and I've not seen him about in ages, although everyone that knew us from years ago, insists on telling me what he's up to and who he's with. Feels like they're rubbing salt into an open wound sometimes.

  • kiku
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I tried to go back to my first husband after a 17 year gap.

    Big mistake, Huge!!

    He was worse than when we were together the first time! And that's saying some thing!

  • 1 decade ago

    I had a fling with my first love after being apart 5 years. We originally were together 7 years and I thought he was everything and was devastated when we split up.

    When we had our fling I couldn't believe how much I disliked him and ended it, I thought I would love him for ever, I am pleased we had a brief fling as all it did was make me realise I had moved on. I couldn't forgive and forget how much he had hurt me previously.

  • zina
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I married my first love 26 years ago. We met the first day of MTV. August 1, 1981

  • 1 decade ago

    I spent the odd night with my first love, it was as nice as I remembered it to be and we just fell into the old routine. I'm married now though and he has a baby so it won't be happening again!

  • 1 decade ago

    i wanted to get back together but, yea-thank goodness i didn't. He was the biggest mistake i ever made. He was a completely different person and wasn't the same person i had remembered him being.

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