Does my best friend not want to be friends anymore?

Give her some space. It sounds like she is trying to manipulate you. Don't give in to her. In time she will either get over it or you will no longer be friends. It's hard to lose a friend, but it isn't good to have a friend who makes you miserable either.

Poor you. You really need to talk to her about this. Maybe she heard some stupid rumour or something that really isn't true and has decided to keep it to herself and not talk to you about it etc. I would suggest you write her a nice letter explaining what you feel and how you don't want your friendship to go to waste. This has happened to me before and the good old-fashioned letter worked wonders as she could look back on all the things i had said and realise our friendship was worth the reason. needless to say, we are best of friends again now. if your friend still won't listen and be pleasant to you, completely back off and she will probably come for you realising what a brilliant, loyal mate she is missing. Oh and in the letter, remind her of the good times you remember together too. You deserve to be treated better, so if she won't listen, you are probably better off finding a new best friend which you will as time goes on. Good Luck Hun!

Hobbs is right, just back off some. If she doesn't tell you why she's acting that way, then she's not giving you any way to fix the wrong (if there was any at all). Personally I would focus on my other friends and not bother with the one who is ignoring you. As hard as it is, best friends do grow apart. You need a best friend that appreciates you and doesn't want to hurt you like your current friend is. If she does come around and tries to be close to you again, I wouldn't allow her unless she explains why she has treated you this way. If you just let it go, that's telling her that treating you like crap is ok. And it's really not.

It kind of sounds like she just wants to take a break from being so close friends. That could be because she wants to hang out with other people and make new friends. She might want to be closer friends again later but that doesn't mean you have to agree since she's treating you like this. I say you should make new friends or at least meet new people and see if you miss her or not.

The only way you can get to the bottom of this is to talk directly to her.One on one just the two of you.Go to her house.Don't text or phone.

Ask her to give you the reason for why she hasn't been friends with you.Tell her you value her friendship and wish you knew what had happened to change her.Hopefully she will explain and then the two of you can resolve your problem.

Just be calm when you talk to her and don't be pushy.

Good Luck.

People have their own problems to deal with. And sometimes they don't want help from even their closest friends. Sometimes they may alienate themseleves from everybody or start hanging out with some "throw-away" friends. Ultimately they know who their real freinds are and will come back when their ready. What can YOU do? Be patient and let her figure things out for herself.

Well maybe you need new friends. I'm sorry you probably don't want to her thos right now but it does sound like she dosn't want to be your friend anymore. You need new friends. Friends that care about you and support you. Not someone who doesn't. Good luck. Hope i helped.

Anyone that would answer "because" isn't a true friend. If she was your true friend, she would explain what is going on and not just suddenly break it off. Move on and find a real friend!

why would you want to be friends with a jerk like that anyways. since she still says your friends just don't talk to her and if she wants to do something with you i would say yes if you just want to talk and express your feeling if she cusses at you again get a way from her cause she has anger issues.

i would say she is defiantly not a true friend.

no, she is not your friend, unless your definition of a friend is a b i t c h.

don't even think of her as a friend because if she acts like that, she just ain't worth it. if she wants space, give her plenty of it. just forget her. she didn't give a reason to why she's acting like that, which means that she doesn't want to reconcile with you for whatever you did, if you even did anything, of course.