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My girlfriend is kind of quiet?
Whenever I stimulate my girlfriend she always seems to be really quiet. She gets an orgasm everytime, and they arent fake I know that for a fact because the first two times that I tried pleasuring her it didnt happen and she let me know. Now, she always wants me to please her, and then afterwards she rates me, and she is flat out honest, she will tell me an 8 and I would be like youre kidding only an 8 and shed be like yep. But during the entire stimulation she is quiet she lays there silently gasping for breath, maybe im just too used to porn where the girls are screaming at the top of their lungs, but why is she so silent.
p.s. she is the first girl that I have ever done anything sexual with, which is why I have no one else to compare it to.
18 Answers
- RcketsLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
There's not much you can do about this. Some people tend to be screamers, others are just quiet and don't make a lot of noise. Sure, she could try to be loud for your benefit but it would likely be contrived.
- 5 years ago
That's exactly how i feel sometimes, i always ask myself that why it's hard for me to get a girlfriend, to do stuff (other fun activities beside sex). By the way i'm also an introverted person. What's crazy I do talk to a lot of them, the majority say i'm a cute guy, but i don't understand is it cause i have to be more of an outgoing guy who can just walk up to females and start conversation OR i just gotta be patient wait until love finds me instead of lookin for it
- 1 decade ago
While you go down on a girl she usually naturaly is silent. While stimulation is taking place all the muscles in your body begin to tense up and it feels tingly. You feel very good, but i can't quit describe exzactly how it feels because it is such a different feeling that you can't feel anywhere else. Each girl feels a bit different, but mostly it's somthing like what i'm talking about. When a girl gets to the peak of her orgasm she feels this aroma that takes over her body for just a fough seconds it can last for 30 seconds or so. It's like taking heroin or somthing your addicted to then you get the low again. During orgasm all the muscles feel tingly and the girl usually starts moving around and during this moment i usually moan a lot, but some girls just silently moan. If your quiet you can focus on the feeling better then you would if you were moaning. All those girls you see in porn movies are paid to sound like that. It's all fake. Some of them hate it because they feel gross. You have to understand i mean imagine you have to have sex with somone that you never met and you arn't inlove with, but worst of all you may think their ugly. If not they don't get paid well for it. It's all faking and stuff. Some girls are loud in bed and some just arn't. Don't whatch to much porn i mean some of those girls are gross their like walking diseases that are filled with left over spirn and hiv EW! Lol and they're probably SOOo stetched out.
- 1 decade ago
she is concentrating, hard to get to that place of release. That is why she is so quiet. The porns are fake. Never compare any female to your porn movies, unless she is a porn star. Ask your girlfriend, what she needs to get up off those two points. Then do it.
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- 1 decade ago
Some girls just don't make noise. Others scream at the top of their lungs.
It may be uncomfortable in the fact that she is so quiet, but if you just make noises yourself or talk to her it should make it a little less... awkward?
If she's orgasming, you're not doing anything wrong.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well im the same way my man actually moans way more than i ever do. but the reason i dont is b/c we live right next to my mom and her room is right next to us and beleive me you can hear everything b/c if i hear her when she talks im sure she'll hear me if i moan so maybe she is the same she might think everyone will hear her when she moans thats why she dont.
but too better answer your question why dont you ask her yourself and rate her than rate her a number lower and tell her that you gave her a 9 b/c she doesnt moan and if she moans for you youll get more arroused asnd then give her a 10
- 1 decade ago
Maybe that's her character. Nobody is the same. Sit down with her and the both of you should talk about it. Or go see a counsilor. They might help. Also ask her to write things she likes about you, and things she hates about you. That will answer your question.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Porn is fake most of the time, and woman can keep quite and for most part prefer to
- 1 decade ago
i think you are being a bit rude to be honest..sorry but..ok maybe she shouldnt rate you but..i really dont think you should be putting her down..and why ask it on here? shes your girlfriend, if you find her lack of noise soo extremely frustrating talk to her and begin acting like a proper boyfriend, seems to me your relationship lacks confrontation and you just bottle any other problems up inside ( i only think this because i dont understand why you cant talk to her yourself)
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- 1 decade ago
Some girls are just quiet in bed. While others are so loud you just want to smother them! I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you or her. She's just naturally quiet.