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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingAdolescent · 1 decade ago

My son (15) was caught masturbating into the panties of an 9 year old girl he was babysitting. What to do!?

My 15 year old son was recently caught masturbating into the panties of a 9 year-old girl he was being paid to babysit. I'm not sure whether it's a "boys will be boys" thing with raging hormones, or that this behavior could possibly lead to more serious things down the road. Any suggestions?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    do her parents know? they could file a report of rape charge against him

    keep him away from all kids and seek counseling

    do not let him babysit ever again he should be hanging out with kids his age . he knows what he did was wrong he is 6 years older then her and he should have never done this.

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    My son (15) was caught masturbating into the panties of an 9 year old girl he was babysitting. What to do!?

    My 15 year old son was recently caught masturbating into the panties of a 9 year-old girl he was being paid to babysit. I'm not sure whether it's a "boys will be boys" thing with raging hormones, or that this behavior could possibly lead to more serious things down the road. Any...

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    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    It depends.

    A lot of boys and men have panty fetishes.

    But if it has to do with the girl being young then it definitely is a problem.

    I think he needs to talk to a counseler who has some knowledge in this area to get an idea of what is going on.

    I would not reach a conclusion until you have more information.

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  • 1 decade ago

    This isn't normal he needs help. He can't go to jail for masturbating in a pair of panties but he can be investegate to make sure he hasn't done anything to the young girl. Trust me you need to get this handle with some help for your son.

  • jaytei
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Usually boys around this age will be interested in girls their own age. This sounds like a real problem which could lead to more serious behaviour down the road. Get some advice from a professional, rather from yahoo answers.

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats not normal AT ALL. First of all he slapped and second he needs to be put in some counseling because this could lead to him becoming a pedophile child molester later on in life. Don't leave him with any younger children for any reason for at least a good six monthes to a year.

  • 1 decade ago

    He definitely need to be checked out because that can lead to something much more serious. If he's doing that to her panties, it's a big possibility that he could do her next. He should not be allowed to babysit her anymore.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    tough situation but i'd say let her mom know that she's touchin herself.to avoid any problems down the line. something like that dont keep a secret tell her mom so that she can be able to talk wit her daughter and teach her she's too young to touch herself and definetly something she shouldn't be doin around people and if u dont say anything then down da line when/if her mom ever finds out she doin somethin like that the first place she gonna look at is u she gonna think she gettn it from ur kid or there wit u when u baby sit her. and u dont want those problems or end up in any kind of trouble

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Get him some serious help right now, and no more babysitting. He's playing with fire and going to get burned. It is not a "boys will be boys" thing. This is definitely deviant behavior, so get him some help -- or save up for a lawyer because he'll need one soon.

  • 1 decade ago

    you should stop him once you get to know it! what if the girl has his baby? He, as a 15 year old can't bear the responsibility as a father. if he has ranging hormones, he should masturbate with himself. yes, this behavior could lead to more serious things. like, he not just masturbate but sex with a girl... the parents of the 9 yr old can sue or report to the police about ur son 'raping' her.

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